Brav, i am surprised by the contradiction in your assessment of the issue. Yes the women choose who will sire their kids but they are in most cases not to blame! why?
1. Men are few, good men are fewer, is Valerie supposed to go for a rega rega man to father her child because the good men are taken?
2. Her biological clock is ticking and the few men are being horded and forced to have vasectomies by their "darling" wives, what choice does a wise woman have? She has to act quickly remember the good men are fertile forever while a woman has a 10 year window or so to become a mother, why is there such a big discrepancy in nature?
3. Valerie is happy with her pregnancy (God Bless Her), why are others complaining?
The solutions to the problems facing single women today need an international conference at a level above G10 or United Nations special session hopefully ending in new declarations and protocols for sharing the few good men around.
Ras Kienyeji Man