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new.member
#1 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 1:25:00 PM
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Joined: 8/12/2009
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After a long time of panic,the goodnews is that today i went for HIV test and it was -ve.Now there is hope for the unborn child and the mother.Next time i see someone on my doorstep knocking,i will just dial 999 .Infact am thinking of telling my gal/boy that the father passed away .Just longing to cut that link completely




Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!
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FundamentAli
#2 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 1:49:00 PM
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Location: Nairobi
Thou shalth not lie.

You are a christian. Confess.


Baada ya dhiki,faaraja
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Wendz
#3 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 1:52:00 PM
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The problem is between you and the father of the kid. Not the father and the kid. You can only forget about him if he does not want to be involved with the kid.... but in any case,you will still remember him coz of the kid. As i had told you,the earlier you learn to stop hating him (am not saying you love him either),the better for you.

Is it true that if you have bitterness when expectant the kid will be a sad,bitter kid?

“Money frees you from doing things you dislike. Since I dislike doing nearly everything,money is handy.” - ~ Groucho Marx.......................

BUT

.......................“I’m living so far beyond my income that we may almost be said to be living apart.” - e e cummings
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Lyanne
#4 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 1:56:00 PM
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Phew !!

You now have a new lease of life.

Strive to thrive in this life. I really was touched by your story the other day.

N/B Whenever a man strips naked next time cry for help !


The Hedonist
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FundamentAli
#5 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 1:58:00 PM
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Location: Nairobi
Ladies,

How do you feel when you have to live with someone who wanted your child aborted?


Baada ya dhiki,faaraja
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new.member
#6 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 2:21:00 PM
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@Wendz,i get your point loud and clear.There are somethings that diminishes with time.Honestly speaking right now am far much better that how i was one month ago,when i used to cry in my closet like a baby.After sharing my story in sk and some very true friends,i hove gotten some strength to push on.But amazingly most of this close friend advises to cut off the link with this guy which i agree with mostly after recommending me for an abortion,now next year the baby will be born and am sure the father shall want to know whether the baby went into the dustbin or is still alive,how can you cut such a link?Am thinking of changing my the place where i stay but still a serious person can still trace you in this City.Just wondering!

Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!
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wangu.n
#7 Posted : Monday, August 24, 2009 5:42:00 PM
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good for you'u dodged a bullet. be very careful from now on.
as u have been told,the sooner u learn to not hate ur baby daddy (despite all) the better. u dont need th load of bearin a grudge.
thou shall not lie to your child. its cruel and selfish. just dont disclose th abortion part.
who has watched how met ur mom 4,th episode bout naked man? used to wonder if it could happen in real life till new.member gave an answer... ha ha ha

You have a right to your opinion.
Allow me mine!
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Dizzy
#8 Posted : Tuesday, August 25, 2009 4:18:00 AM
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That is good news. Be sure to keep the door closed to naked men

Strike while the iron is hot
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KenSaf
#9 Posted : Tuesday, August 25, 2009 4:43:00 AM
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'Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.'


'There are plenty more fish in the sea,I just don't have a very effective net'
Doors of opportunity don't just open , they have to be unlocked & it's up to you to turn the knob.
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Kamaa
#10 Posted : Tuesday, August 25, 2009 5:12:00 AM
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new member am happy for you have found consolation of your health..praise be to God! you now got two more tests to go.. to forgive & to be truthful to your kid.. implement all to the letter and you shall triumph!

you've heard me..
When you hear what I say, you will not understand. When you see what I do, you will not comprehend
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