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karuss
#1 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 7:59:00 AM
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Guys,what is your take on marrying a single lady (never married)who has a kids or one kid?What would be your reservations?or wot would motivate you?Is it something you would consider?

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Ojwang
#2 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 8:04:00 AM
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It is likely,but there is so much baggage,utakua compared with the kids dad.

ojwang
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Spendthrift
#3 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 8:16:00 AM
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Case by case basis.

Na hapa sio mambo ya democracy. Assuming you have taken your time to know her,listen to your heart and head and make a decision based on that. Otherwise the blah,blah blah about 'single women with kids' is not any different from tribal/ethnic stereotyping.


Everyday!
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jyo
#4 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 8:35:00 AM
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Location: nairobi, dolnhom
marry her but dont ever complain about the kids dad... whenever he comes or meets your wife somewhere in town to know how his child is doing...and always be ready to be compared with him all the time.

A woman who fears nakedness cannot bear children.
Your work will form a large part of your life the only way to be trully satisfied is to love what you do.
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Evolve
#5 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 8:50:00 AM
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I know of a jamaa who moved to stay with a divorced lady with kids. The jamaa has now been kicked out by the kids with their mother. Be very carefull if you have to get involved with such. A lady with a child might however work.
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The Real Shaft
#6 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 8:58:00 AM
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Case by case yes.....

lakini......

why would you want to plough land that already has been ploughed...???

why dont you get a fertile piece of land...

and we have hectares of such land....

to plough firstly...

and see your own toil grow...???

I'm the real Massey F.....shut your mouth
I'm the real Massey Fergu...... Shut your mouth....
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Chaka
#7 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 9:00:00 AM
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@Evolve,

I suspect you mean the guy who looks like Nobert Okare........

You mean the kids kicked their mum plus the guy out?
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Evolve
#8 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 9:07:00 AM
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The mother and the kids kicked the jamaa out.
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Ojwang
#9 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 9:09:00 AM
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@Trs,Exactly why go for ploughed land when you can plough and till your own and eat the harvest wholeheartedly without looking over your shoulder from a past owner.

ojwang
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Ojwang
#10 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 9:09:00 AM
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@Trs,Exactly why go for ploughed land when you can plough and till your own and eat the harvest wholeheartedly without looking over your shoulder from a past owner.

ojwang
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