This piece is for all ladies who are in steady relationships,whether married or not. Let’s face it,a high percentage (they say 90%) of men will stray outside marriage for various reasons like the need for adventure,curiosity,as a cure for boredom or simply because UTADO?
Women are constantly complaining that their husbands are being unfaithful or that they are heart broken or that they can’t believe this is happening to them. Quite frankly,I’m tired of these complaints. Maybe it’s time for a paradigm shift. Please note this is very radical and will probably elicit strong views but has come about after lots of thought and simply being practical. My suggestion is this: Ladies,‘GIVE YOUR MAN A FREE PASS TO BE WITH WHOMEVER HE WANTS!' I know,this sounds completely crazy but hear me out. For the sake of control and preventing the spread of disease lay some important ground rules. I have come up with two:
Never ever bring the other woman near your home or to your marital bed. If this happens,you have the right to leave.
Always use protection with your wife. This shows respect. You don’t know what kind of people you’ve been with out there and you must protect your family. If you want to have a child agree that you shall get tested first.
As a result,you will never have to look over your shoulder again in paranoia wondering who your man is with. Since he’s likely to stray anyway you are able to rid yourself of one worry that is constantly on many women’s minds and focus on more important things like raising your children and growing your investments.
Note: This is just a crazy proposition!!!
