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Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol?
Rank: Member Joined: 1/22/2015 Posts: 682
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I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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Old man Ock, stop dating girls so young to be your daughter. i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/25/2011 Posts: 2,103 Location: Nrb
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There is drinking,then there is upumbavu Why would anybody drink to the point of staggering? Cleaning after? What are you cleaning? Fighting her fights,who are you fighting? Stop dating thugs my fren, and look for a real lady. I am happy
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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Have some class. Anyone who cannot behave after having a few drinks, is not worth your time. "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/17/2011 Posts: 887
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Dude dude dude. Pull this thread down, it's really putting you in bad light.
Surely, with all the classy ladies out there, why would you even go out with a slob that drinks herself stupid?
No no no, you don't have to put yourself through that at all unless you are dating those 20 year old campus girls.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Try dating a prostitute, they drink but never get high If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Are you serious or you were just bored and thought of starting a weird story to deflect attention from Babu Owino?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. So for you not to look stingy and boring alcohol has to be in the picture. Its not funny that its your lady who cannot handle the alcohol. The best way out is to have a lady with whom you share interests and can enjoy with or without alcohol.Go to movies,travel out of town,have dinner at home or outside,go shopping together,church etc and lots of ......... Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,935
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Do all women drink alcohol, and those who drink always drink themselves silly. My answer is no. probably you are dealing on the cheap!!!! As @bigsis has said look for a woman whom you share common interests and they are many. Try church!!! Wachana na @swenani  In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/18/2009 Posts: 175
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start drinking my fren and all your problems will be gone Some you win some you lose
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