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Rank: Member Joined: 1/22/2015 Posts: 682
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I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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Old man Ock, stop dating girls so young to be your daughter. i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/25/2011 Posts: 2,103 Location: Nrb
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There is drinking,then there is upumbavu Why would anybody drink to the point of staggering? Cleaning after? What are you cleaning? Fighting her fights,who are you fighting? Stop dating thugs my fren, and look for a real lady. I am happy
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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Have some class. Anyone who cannot behave after having a few drinks, is not worth your time. "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/17/2011 Posts: 887
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Dude dude dude. Pull this thread down, it's really putting you in bad light.
Surely, with all the classy ladies out there, why would you even go out with a slob that drinks herself stupid?
No no no, you don't have to put yourself through that at all unless you are dating those 20 year old campus girls.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Try dating a prostitute, they drink but never get high If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Are you serious or you were just bored and thought of starting a weird story to deflect attention from Babu Owino?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. So for you not to look stingy and boring alcohol has to be in the picture. Its not funny that its your lady who cannot handle the alcohol. The best way out is to have a lady with whom you share interests and can enjoy with or without alcohol.Go to movies,travel out of town,have dinner at home or outside,go shopping together,church etc and lots of ......... Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,908
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Do all women drink alcohol, and those who drink always drink themselves silly. My answer is no. probably you are dealing on the cheap!!!! As @bigsis has said look for a woman whom you share common interests and they are many. Try church!!! Wachana na @swenani  In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/18/2009 Posts: 175
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start drinking my fren and all your problems will be gone Some you win some you lose
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,908
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washiku wrote:Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Are you serious or you were just bored and thought of starting a weird story to deflect attention from Babu Owino? Kwani the world stopped coz of politics? In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/11/2007 Posts: 694
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he!he! you are staring at a future disaster in the name of a marriage. You clean after your girlfriend mess? Wah maybe am analogue but this one is a first.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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One of the ugliest sights and I must say horrible sights is the seeing a drunk woman However beautiful she looks during the day, she turns very hideous
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Boss, stop chasing after socialites. But changing the topic slightly, how many men agree that the pub is best place to pick up genuine women? Not talking bar maids but patrons.
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/27/2009 Posts: 1,437
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2012 wrote:Boss, stop chasing after socialites.
But changing the topic slightly, how many men agree that the pub is best place to pick up genuine women? Not talking bar maids but patrons. It's not the best but the easiest. Easy to approach (note not loose morals) since inhibitions are lowered kiasi. The best might be the Church, choir, weddings or even class.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/27/2009 Posts: 1,437
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Mike Ock wrote:I personally do not drink, but I have been tolerant of people drinking around me and I also didn't mind buying drinks for people, especially ladies.
However, as I grow older, I'm getting sick and tired of the situation that always arises where you buy a lady a drink, then as the sober one, you are left babysitting her, cleaning up her messes, fighting her fights, carrying her around as she staggers, waking up to open for her the gate at ungodly hours, and to top it off, you're also supposed to tolerate her in her ragged hungover state the next day! It's like I quit alcohol to avoid all that drama and those high expenses, yet I'm still feeling the pinch of alcohol by osmosis through ladies!
Sometimes I feel like saying that I will never buy alcohol for a lady again, but that feels too drastic a measure. Can ladies date someone who doesn't buy alcohol, or will I look stingy and boring? Considering how Kenya is a drinking nation, I'm worried my options will be too narrow if I take this route. Dude. Change your dating circles urgently before you marry a drinking monster. I am not saying a sober monster is better but ......
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/22/2015 Posts: 682
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But what percentage of people don't drink in Kenya? There's a reason EABL is a titan, let's not be hypocrites.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 8/10/2010 Posts: 2,264
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2012 wrote:Boss, stop chasing after socialites.
But changing the topic slightly, how many men agree that the pub is best place to pick up genuine women? Not talking bar maids but patrons. True the club is the best place to pick a genuine woman. Nimeangukia a few because it's the only place you can genuinely gauge a woman's character and how she relates with her drink and the men around her. When you enter a club all you have to do is settle your eyes on one character and "pimia" her from a distance untill the time you see she wants to leave then pounce. The best point to consider is that she must be in the company of a group of ladies . Keep off lone rangers. Politics is just things to keep the people divided and foolish and put your trust in men and none of them can do nothing for you...
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/9/2009 Posts: 311
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Majority of Kenyans don't drink. It's not even close. Katika Jangwa la Jangili ndipo Pwagu hupata Pwaguzi.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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2012 wrote:Boss, stop chasing after socialites.
But changing the topic slightly, how many men agree that the pub is best place to pick up genuine women? Not talking bar maids but patrons. I If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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