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www.the-star.co.ke/news/...wife-tells-divorce-courtC&P A 42-year-old Nairobi businessman got a rude shock when his wife of 15 years declared that he was not the biological father of their three children. Mr XYZ (name withheld to protect the children's identities) was told in open divorce court yesterday by his wife that he is not the father of their three children aged between three and 15. She asked the court to order DNA tests on the minors and the businessman to establish paternity. “A DNA test should be conducted to confirm that indeed the plaintiff is a stranger to the minors,” said the woman. Also sought by the woman is an order to have the biological fathers of her three children enjoined in the case. Mr XYZ married the woman in a church ceremony in 1999.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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jaggernaut wrote:www.the-star.co.ke/news/article-190665/husband-not-dad-my-3-kids-wife-tells-divorce-court
C&P
A 42-year-old Nairobi businessman got a rude shock when his
wife of 15 years declared that he was not the biological father
of their three children.
Mr XYZ (name withheld to protect the children's identities)
was told in open divorce court yesterday by his wife that he is
not the father of their three children aged between three and
15.
She asked the court to order DNA tests on the minors and the
businessman to establish paternity.
“A DNA test should be conducted to confirm that indeed the
plaintiff is a stranger to the minors,” said the woman.
Also sought by the woman is an order to have the biological
fathers of her three children enjoined in the case.
Mr XYZ married the woman in a church ceremony in 1999. He should sue the woman. This can be a huge payout. i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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DNA testing should be made free and compulsory in all hospitals at the time of birth.
These stories have become all too common.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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Someone commented that the guy is lucky that he has known the truth unlike many "fathers" who live all their lives without knowing "the truth".
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/27/2014 Posts: 454 Location: Republic of Enchantment.
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kysse wrote:DNA testing should be made free and compulsory in all hospitals at the time of birth.
These stories have become all too common.
I second you,a DNA test at birth would help one to make the right decision.These scenarios will send the man to the grave sooner than expected.Afadhali kujua mapema so that you know what you are getting into. Divers - can you laugh in scuba gear, or will you drown? I was wondering. - James May.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/10/2008 Posts: 9,131 Location: Kanjo
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These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. i.am.back!!!!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 4/27/2010 Posts: 951 Location: Nyumbani
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Who said you can be sure of your mother but only God and your mother know your father.
Time to check the toes , shape of the legs or even the nose and masikio kama ni yako.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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This is sad. And it has become so prevalent. Women in the name of liberation are "going for it" Get a handsome man to sire your children and a rich "not so good looking " man to provide for them. Unfortunately rich and handsome are rare to come by so some women opt to mix and match. God help us. Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,057 Location: Gwitu
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kiash wrote:Who said you can be sure of your mother but only God and your mother know your father.
Time to check the toes , shape of the legs or even the nose and masikio kama ni yako. Naona mmoja ako na macho kama ya jirani fulani! Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/15/2013 Posts: 1,977 Location: Here
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I remember how local/traditional/village women did it. while assisting the woman to deliver they would ask her the real farther of the kid and warned if she lied she and or the infant will die. some few perished and the truth and nothing but the truth our mothers &sisters said. Everybody STEALS, a THIEF is one who's CAUGHT stealing something of LITTLE VALUE. !!!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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harrydre wrote:These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. I can NEVER do that. Not to kids that I have held and bonded with since they emerged from the labour Ward. If mama watoto pulled a fast one on me, let that be between her and her maker.....and her conscience. Let her be consumed by guilt every day of her life as I raise the kids as a good father.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/9/2009 Posts: 2,003
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jaggernaut wrote:harrydre wrote:These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. I can NEVER do that. Not to kids that I have held (and bonded with) since they emerged from the labour Ward. If mama watoto pulled a fast one on me, let that be between her and her maker.....and her conscience. Let her be consumed by guilt every day of her life as I raise the kids as a good father. This is my position too. Fatherhood isn't just siring a child. It's much more than that. My kid knows no other father. And that is what matters.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Why marry a man you have no intentions of siring kids with?
shida iko wapi?
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/4/2013 Posts: 255
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Where did this weird trend come from?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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Bigchick wrote:This is sad.
And it has become so prevalent.
Women in the name of liberation are "going for it"
Get a handsome man to sire your children and a rich "not so good looking " man to provide for them.
Unfortunately rich and handsome are rare to come by so some women opt to mix and match.
God help us.
As a mother, which is better for your kid's future - to have "riches" genes or "handsome" genes?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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radio wrote:jaggernaut wrote:harrydre wrote:These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. I can NEVER do that. Not to kids that I have held (and bonded with) since they emerged from the labour Ward. If mama watoto pulled a fast one on me, let that be between her and her maker.....and her conscience. Let her be consumed by guilt every day of her life as I raise the kids as a good father. This is my position too. Fatherhood isn't just siring a child. It's much more than that. My kid knows no other father. And that is what matters. Up until the day, where in addition to 'handsome' kids, she gives you a disease.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/20/2009 Posts: 1,402
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Mukiri wrote:radio wrote:jaggernaut wrote:harrydre wrote:These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. I can NEVER do that. Not to kids that I have held (and bonded with) since they emerged from the labour Ward. If mama watoto pulled a fast one on me, let that be between her and her maker.....and her conscience. Let her be consumed by guilt every day of her life as I raise the kids as a good father. This is my position too. Fatherhood isn't just siring a child. It's much more than that. My kid knows no other father. And that is what matters. Up until the day, where in addition to 'handsome' kids, she gives you a disease. What do u do when you get to know the kids you loved and brought up to teenage don't have your genes?... I am sure they wouldn't stop being my kids. As for the cheating mom... thats tough.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Muheani wrote:Mukiri wrote:radio wrote:jaggernaut wrote:harrydre wrote:These days you can do it online. A kit is mailed to you, you pick it at DHL, collect the samples and mail back to the lab. They will send you results in a week or 2. simple and totally confidential. I can NEVER do that. Not to kids that I have held (and bonded with) since they emerged from the labour Ward. If mama watoto pulled a fast one on me, let that be between her and her maker.....and her conscience. Let her be consumed by guilt every day of her life as I raise the kids as a good father. This is my position too. Fatherhood isn't just siring a child. It's much more than that. My kid knows no other father. And that is what matters. Up until the day, where in addition to 'handsome' kids, she gives you a disease. What do u do when you get to know the kids you loved and brought up to teenage don't have your genes?... I am sure they wouldn't stop being my kids. As for the cheating mom... thats tough. What you do not know doesn't hurt!! She is better off going with her secret to grave! If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/3/2007 Posts: 1,635
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kiash wrote:Who said you can be sure of your mother but only God and your mother know your father.
Time to check the toes , shape of the legs or even the nose and masikio kama ni yako. This is one area where our society is clearly regressing, despite greater learning and exposure. In the past many African cultures did not discriminate against children. Once a child was born it belonged to the man who was married to the mother - or the family. Society punished adultery but not the child. How can we claim to be civilized? "The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth." (Niels Bohr)
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