@Thrifty, a lady friend of mine once told me that finding a good man is very difficult. I agreed to that and added that the same applied to finding a good woman.
So, if currently you are sharing the man with someone else, don't mind, GOOD men are few, hence rare. Shikilia hapo hapo, the personal one u r looking for may turn out to be a devil.
Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.β β Rashi