do we usually have counselors who can help some1 build this for themselves.

don't misquote me for saying my friend problem but i have a cuz of mine who has the above problem,she has lost the confidence in herself,tried self-assuring her and talking to her but it hasnt helped much ,am thinking maybe an external person would help or how else can this be approached, especially her biggest headache is the career choice,how to go about it after the degree she pursued isnt doing her much justice 2 years down the line.

wazua spirit!