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How do you deal with haters?
KenyanLyrics
#1 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 2:08:19 PM
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We all have those people in our life who rather than criticise you objectively, prefer to hurl personal blows in your face. What is your method for dealing with these specimens?
kenyanbeef
#2 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 2:16:12 PM
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@Mcreggae has done a good job with @impunity. He may have some insights.
simonkabz
#3 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 2:19:33 PM
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KenyanLyrics wrote:
We all have those people in our life who rather than criticise you objectively, prefer to hurl personal blows in your face. What is your method for dealing with these specimens?


Personally, I don't wait. Tooth for a tooth.
TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
2012
#4 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 2:42:38 PM
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Some battles are not worth fighting. They have no spoils. Some battle you'll be the bigger loser after winning.

You will find this very interesting:
Avoid Battles which are not Worth fighting

BBI will solve it
:)
Mukiri
#5 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 3:06:16 PM
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Gal 5:16-23, Col 1:9-12. Long suffering is a gift of the Holy Spirit. Temper is a weapon satan uses. Seek help from above.

Proverbs 19:21
tycho
#6 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 3:54:21 PM
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You reap what you sow.

So if what you get is unpleasant, look at your seeds.
McReggae
#7 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 4:07:08 PM
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kenyanbeef wrote:
@Mcreggae has done a good job with @impunity. He may have some insights.


....Heh, hebu explain!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
Um Sayala
#8 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 4:30:41 PM
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KenyanLyrics wrote:
We all have those people in our life who rather than criticise you objectively, prefer to hurl personal blows in your face. What is your method for dealing with these specimens?


Everything ni DoUBLE DOUBLE....oga oh.so hate twice as much then they'll cool down....on a light note.

The energy used in hating is more than twice that used in loving...so love them and remain with more energy to do positive things. watajisort.

"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown
Kaka M
#9 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 4:48:04 PM
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Unless you really have to don't waste your time with Dogs that bark at you when you r on your journey. The best they do is slow you down, so if you can is to keep your focus, unless they r about to do more than bark from a distance.
Robinhood
#10 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 6:10:19 PM
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One man said that haters (critics) are like a lash on the back on a race horse. Simply encourages the horse to the finish line. Focus on what you must do, if they are real haters, then the fact that you have driven them to such hate means you are well on your way somewhere
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
For Sport
#11 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 7:37:27 PM
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kelele za chura tu. Ng'ombe bado hunywa maji
simonkabz
#12 Posted : Friday, November 23, 2012 8:23:06 PM
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Um Sayala wrote:
KenyanLyrics wrote:
We all have those people in our life who rather than criticise you objectively, prefer to hurl personal blows in your face. What is your method for dealing with these specimens?


Everything ni DoUBLE DOUBLE....oga oh.so hate twice as much then they'll cool down....on a light note.

The energy used in hating is more than twice that used in loving...so love them and remain with more energy to do positive things. watajisort.



Hehe it takes a big deal to love an idiot. Knock off some teeth hehe
TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
D32
#13 Posted : Sunday, November 25, 2012 1:25:18 AM
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I resonate with what some have said.

Haters always hate due to a particular or a multiplicity of reasons.

It could be that you are in possession of something(s), both tangible and intangible, that they do not have.

Know why it is that they are hating. If it is because you are good at something, be even better at it, etc...

Have no time for them.

When they talk the hate before you, be happy, give them the best smile possible. Once they are done, give them a good message like "take care".

Some people feel alive by being in confrontations, because, it's then that they will receive attention, while you confront them.

Others are just miserabale, and all that they want is to make others likewise.

At the end of the day, always dis-engage on a positive note, and always be happy, if they are in need, help them. In doing so, it will be like putting hot coals on their neck.

Read Romans 12:20 & 21 - The bible's counsel on the subject.
They tried to bury us, they didn't know we were seeds.
King G
#14 Posted : Sunday, November 25, 2012 1:39:47 PM
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tit for tat, an eye for an eye, they poke you, you poke them harder. o'wise you will be the stepping stone for others
Thieves
XSK
#15 Posted : Sunday, November 25, 2012 6:25:58 PM
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Why not just ignore them until they fade away? so says one American musician.
You will know that you have arrived when money and time are not mutually exclusive "events" in you life!
ChessMaster
#16 Posted : Monday, November 26, 2012 4:16:40 AM
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Haters have their own issues. There are people who go crazy when they see a person who has focus/intensity/purpose in their life/work/hobby.Let them be,they will burn themselves out.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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