Pole @ Brav on the loss of your little angel. As for the other bravlets, I think you should talk to them as candidly as possible in a language they can understand, keeping in mind their young age.Trying to brush the issue aside may leave them confused.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.... Leo Buscaglia