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new investor
#1 Posted : Monday, May 28, 2012 6:14:23 AM
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Hi Wazuans,

A friend of mine broke up with his second wife in 2006 and they had a 2year old baby girl. He took the child to live with him and applied for full custody in the Ugandan courts.

He came back to Kenya in 2009 with a new wife and she also got a baby making two in all(NOT COUNTING THE ONE FROM THE FIRST WIFE)

In 2010, the Ugandan (third wife) left him and went with her daughter.

The guy took the other girl to live in a chidren's home in UG.

The mother was so traumatised by police harassment and she was ordered never to step in Kampala.She is not even aware that the guy is in Kenya now but he lies to her that the child is ok. It has been difficult to serve court papers because she doesn't know where the guy is(but I know)

As a concerned citizen, I feel the government should bring this child to Kenya to be with her mother or even a foster family.This guy does not have a birth certificate and whichever papers he has a re forged with a different name.The little girl does not even know her real name or her mother. The father does not visit her at all or talk to her . What can be done?

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new investor
#2 Posted : Monday, May 28, 2012 6:21:00 AM
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new investor wrote:
Hi Wazuans,

A friend of mine broke up with his second wife in 2006 and they had a 2year old baby girl. He took the child to live with him and applied for full custody in the Ugandan courts.

He came back to Kenya in 2009 with a new wife and she also got a baby making two in all(NOT COUNTING THE ONE FROM THE FIRST WIFE)

In 2010, the Ugandan (third wife) left him and went with her daughter.

The guy took the other girl to live in a chidren's home in UG.

The mother was so traumatised by police harassment and she was ordered never to step in Kampala.She is not even aware that the guy is in Kenya now but he lies to her that the child is ok. It has been difficult to serve court papers because she doesn't know where the guy is(but I know)

As a concerned citizen, I feel the government should bring this child to Kenya to be with her mother or even a foster family.This guy does not have a birth certificate and whichever papers he has a re forged with a different name.The little girl does not even know her real name or her mother. The father does not visit her at all or talk to her . What can be done?



I forgot to add am also concerned about this guy's frame of mind. About two weeks ago his son (from the first wife) visited him but he didn't take him back. When we went to his place, we found that he had got an order for temporary custody by alleging that the child had been dumped and lying about the identity of the mother. He told the child that he is getting him another school but so far no interviews have taken place.

PS: He ordered the child to switch off phone and lied to the mother the battery was low.....
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radio
#3 Posted : Monday, May 28, 2012 6:43:03 AM
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I've lost count of those wives.

I won't want to be friends with this kind.
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Robinhood
#4 Posted : Monday, May 28, 2012 8:27:22 AM
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@new investor, this is sad. Too sad. You may need a discussion with a lawyer on your options here. Please ditch the 'friend'
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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sparkly
#5 Posted : Monday, May 28, 2012 8:34:21 AM
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@new investor take this matter to the children's court and get your daughter back!
Life is short. Live passionately.
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new investor
#6 Posted : Wednesday, June 06, 2012 8:57:30 PM
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sparkly wrote:
@new investor take this matter to the children's court and get your daughter back!


Hi,

Fortunately I do not have daughters....if dat was my daughter I guess we could only be fighting for his estate and he would not be around to see it.

The thing is, this guy has been my friend and I only learnt all this stuff juzi coz we were not in touch.

Do you think he is fine? as i upstairs??
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newfarer
#7 Posted : Wednesday, June 06, 2012 9:30:29 PM
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Location: Uganda
new investor wrote:
sparkly wrote:
@new investor take this matter to the children's court and get your daughter back!


Hi,

Fortunately I do not have daughters....if dat was my daughter I guess we could only be fighting for his estate and he would not be around to see it.

The thing is, this guy has been my friend and I only learnt all this stuff juzi coz we were not in touch.

Do you think he is fine? as i upstairs??

no.he is not. leave him and run like u have seen the horned devil live live.or you will be the 6th wife
punda amecheka
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new investor
#8 Posted : Friday, June 22, 2012 11:36:40 AM
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Thanks all for your contributions. Somehow we managed to trace the mother and the guy has been ordered to produce the child at NAIROBI CHILDREN'S COURT on the 2nd of July.

Now the man is acting like the victim and appealing for the public to have mercy

http://www.iddsalim.com/...sel-child-custody-case/

Am sure I had not mentioned that the man used police to bar the child's mother from entering UG so she could never know what is going on

I HAVE DITCHED THIS FRIEND NOW!!!! Jah help I
Can you believe the child does not know her real name or her mother?
I now believe the Kenyan courts are working.
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new investor
#9 Posted : Wednesday, October 09, 2013 12:01:38 PM
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new investor wrote:
Hi Wazuans,

A friend of mine broke up with his second wife in 2006 and they had a 2year old baby girl. He took the child to live with him and applied for full custody in the Ugandan courts.

He came back to Kenya in 2009 with a new wife and she also got a baby making two in all(NOT COUNTING THE ONE FROM THE FIRST WIFE)

In 2010, the Ugandan (third wife) left him and went with her daughter.

The guy took the other girl to live in a chidren's home in UG.

The mother was so traumatised by police harassment and she was ordered never to step in Kampala.She is not even aware that the guy is in Kenya now but he lies to her that the child is ok. It has been difficult to serve court papers because she doesn't know where the guy is(but I know)

As a concerned citizen, I feel the government should bring this child to Kenya to be with her mother or even a foster family.This guy does not have a birth certificate and whichever papers he has a re forged with a different name.The little girl does not even know her real name or her mother. The father does not visit her at all or talk to her . What can be done?



FF to 2013

The guy passed 2 weeks ago and no one knows the whereabouts of this small girl... what should the mother do now?
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Gathige
#10 Posted : Wednesday, October 09, 2013 12:07:34 PM
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@new investor, your friend was investing too much in the fairer gender. Now that he has gone to makueni let him rest in peace as all his earthly problems are over.
"Things that matter most must never be at the mercy of things that matter least." Goethe
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