Friday bhangi seems not very strong today.

This is a sensitive area and the lines sometimes become blurred, but there are markers to indicate when a line from “okay” to “not okay” is crossed. Yes, it’s okay to have friends of the opposite sex, in your personal life or at work, but it’s also an area full of landmines. Why is this?

This is because when you start confiding personal details of your life and sharing on an emotional level, you are starting to form an emotional connection and attachment. The sense of intimacy can deepen the more you share, and there can be a feeling that the other person understands you and is easier to talk to than your spouse is. The deepening of emotional intimacy can activate feelings of sexual attraction, whether they are ever acted on or not.

Then add the element of secrecy as you share things you wouldn’t want your spouse to know you shared and you start having secret conversations—in person and by phone—with the other person. This dynamic is similar to what happens in a physical affair when secrecy magnifies the intensity of the relationship. All of this is tricky, shaky ground and it’s easy to take a misstep that was never planned.

Excerpts from
http://www.keepyourmarriage.com/KYM_Ezine/Ezine_Volume_7/Ezine_V7_08.htm

Well said @Jacy26. My take @ali:

Bad News: at a certain level, human beings are emotional creatures. At a second level, people are in relationships so you've got a life witness and a companion.

Good News: yet at another level, human beings are physical beings.


So the bad news is the partner is drifting away; the good news is they are not gone completely. If I was speaking to a man, I'd say find a reason to reconnect and fill out her life. If I was speaking to a woman, I'd say rediscover what you love so much in him.

Have you taken a dancing class together?

Toboa yote

I hope Miss JBlazin yuko kwa salon where she cannot access Wazua...

Ilikuwa before Miss JB aingie mix. Though that story has been put undercover...
What woke me from my ignorance was the day the chic's hubby called me and asked me, "...amekuwa bibi yako?" Yeah, I tend to think emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating.