@Bigchick believe me, if you were likes of Vera, you won't be here typing something in Wazua. You would have turned "foolish" by praises and looks and excessive attention. The fact that you still retained your brains and character (I'm assuming this) is that, you're the kind of well endowed woman, well rounded with African curves, who commands dignity and respect and marriage material...

Cheer on ...and yet the Nairobi scene is strewn with the wreckage of lives of Nairobi girls who were swept off their feet by rich men by virtue of gifts and largesse, used and then discarded.
If you are gonna throw your lot with an old geezer, squeeze him hard and come out the other end SET FOR LIFE. Sadly, instead of securing durable, self-sustaining wealth in their own name, most girls settle for sucking wilted d***s for trinkets and shiny baubles, flowers, expensive (but valueless) cars and apartments (that are usually leased ...cars too!!)
Beauty is an ephemeral thing. A younger, hotter version comes along inside a year.
I suppose being taken in by a poor faker is worse

@Quicksand you have detoured.
We are in agreement that the life of a sponsor in a girls life is not ideal,its not good and its a hopeless one. Girls in this life are generally unhappy but put on shows for world to see.Big beautiful house but very cold.Etc

The point we are discussing is a "broke" guy like PM trying to get a high maintainance well rounded beautiful lady like GM.Guys do not aim where you cannot reach.GM may have liked him initially for his nice looks and just being him but with time she realised a girl cannot live on looks alone.

@Quicksand we have no clue what may have happened between them.We are just speculating hence this debate of "What do men want" given that she has all that we assume men look for and moreso relative to Ms Momanyi.(With due respect to her and wishing her well)

I'm amazed that such arguments, can be found in Wazua among the 'educated'.

Very amazing indeed.