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McReggae
#81 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 1:13:12 PM
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Joined: 6/17/2008
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Location: Nairobi
Swenani wrote:
AlphDoti wrote:
majimaji wrote:
I'm I the only one who is unable to give opinion or advice on this??

Me too... I would really feel this man. It's not easy thing for trust to be broken, but then all he has said seems related to the past. However, I would understand he's upset because he wonders why his wife is in contact with this X again. He must be very upset about this man who is supposed to behave like a sheikh and avoid chatting married women. But aren't sheikhs now even given sermons in the bedroom? So all these questions make @commando confused and upset.

@commando, do this, are you sure your wife has cheated you after marriage? If not, then try to be calm, and start trying to make her forget this X (pretender guy who hides in sheep's skin, why don't pastors be like Christ?).

If you're not sure if she has cheated, then I suggest you print these evidences and keep them somewhere safe. Then be calm, plan a date, tell her you need to talk to her, don't give details just these words "need to talk", don't touch her for now, this should make her tense, which will work to your advantage (gain upper hand). Then on this very date, tell her you have some evidence about some relationship she's been keeping. Ask her to tell you more about it...

Go silent and listen... see if she will open up and tell you everything. See if this match your evidence.



smile
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Angelica _ann
#82 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 1:15:35 PM
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Joined: 12/7/2012
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Pelekea the X kishwo ya dogie hii story iishe!
In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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AlphDoti
#83 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 1:17:20 PM
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Joined: 6/20/2008
Posts: 6,275
Location: Kenya
@commando my advice above came in too late... I had not read all the posts. I can see you have already called her, and you didn't get anywhere because she denied, and by calling her you lost all her body language which you'd have seen during confrontation d'oh!

And now you've sent her a text to tell her you only need the kids... what were you thinking doing all these things on phone? Now she knows, now she's destroying all other evidences, plus building her defense and couching the stupid dude! Who knows, with your threats, now she needs a shoulder to lean on, and maybe she's already meeting the guy for comfort over her messed marriage (and wipe her tears, you said she is away).

Dude, you blew it!! If she were cheating, you will never be able to break that cycle because you've send her to defense corner, and all she can do is another lie on top of another. You are in for a long messy ride, no stopping... And you'll remember this 2 years to come.

You should not have rushed this Shame on you Shame on you
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Angelica _ann
#84 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 1:21:10 PM
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mwenza wrote:
Moyes Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly


Thank God @Mwenza is alive Pray
In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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mwenza
#85 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 1:36:55 PM
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Joined: 4/22/2009
Posts: 2,863
Angelica _ann wrote:
mwenza wrote:
Moyes Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly


Thank God @Mwenza is alive Pray



Never known that you are in love with me, madam....Holla!
IF YOU EXPECT ME TO POST ANYTHING POSITIVE ABOUT ASENO, YOU MAY AS WELL SIT ON A PIN
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CLK
#86 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 2:00:08 PM
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Joined: 4/1/2009
Posts: 846
commando wrote:
CLK wrote:

Infact she was a rebound,


Boss, why did you get married again?


define rebound - in this context, i met her when i had just broken up[/quote]

It sounded more like you did her a favor marrying her, and hence my worry if you actually got married for the wrong reasons in the first place.
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Swenani
#87 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 2:07:11 PM
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mwenza wrote:
Angelica _ann wrote:
mwenza wrote:
Moyes Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly


Thank God @Mwenza is alive Pray



Never known that you are in love with me, madam....Holla!


Get a bed
If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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githundi
#88 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 2:11:34 PM
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Joined: 11/19/2010
Posts: 1,308
Location: nairobi metropolitan
xI
mthaka wrote:
i really do not understand why when an X,landed in your airport is like he has control,anytime you meet even when married and he wants to land you find yourself allowing it,once you land ,you are in control,married or not

Looking at situation brother,
This is what you need to know, and mark you it's from a lady.
If she's been hiding about her X, it's more probable he has /is landing.
Hii ndiyo shida unafaa kutatua.
Don't divorce her, but discipline her.
Choices must have consequences, otherwise they might continue landing after a lull.
I wish to remind you Mthaka 's quote.
Two Ex always need only minutes to land.
Truth, hurting but you know it from experience.
I usually insist a person should not communicate or meet an X (if possible) after marriage.
O. W, mambo ni kangaja huenda yakaja.
Democracy does not belong to the dead
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murchr
#89 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 3:26:06 PM
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Joined: 2/26/2012
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Commando was just playing with wazuans
"There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Buster
#90 Posted : Wednesday, March 05, 2014 4:32:08 PM
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Joined: 5/17/2007
Posts: 1,345
commando wrote:
Swenani wrote:
segemia wrote:
@ commado!!! You are simply a kubaf I.D.I.O.T. Are you telling us that before marriage you knew absolutely nothing about women in general???

If this is the case then probably you were gay before marrying that woman. YES!!NO!!




Waaah,Kuwa mpole buda


I am laughing for once smile
One thing for sure is I love my kids, and am sure they are mine, how i know ni story ya siku ingine. For her despite her little failings, she is generally a good person but what i uncovered was shocking and is soldered in my ROM. It has completely changed how i view her. The pine will definitely malfunction not sure for how long. I fear i may go back to ruaraka waters that i have been struggling to kick.
Divorce NO! I will try rebuild trust for the sake of my kids. But i think i want an away match/matches.
I already called her and asked her and she denied. I presented evidence, she has gone mute. My temper has reduced. I have been shaking with rage..Lucky her, she is away


You guys have read the above and this;

Polygamy is thriving! the reverse..?

Life is short.... I need to be happy

All that in a few hours? Come on! He knows what he is doing and what he wants. There is no need to entertain him anymore. His mind is already made up. IMO he has been waiting for an opportunity.
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