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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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You guys have run with the thread....waaah possunt quia posse videntur
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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But linking Career woman to Alcohol is a fallacy. I bet most of us live in town and have never seen jobless women in shags drink till dawn. Including the tucucus sijui tuko na stress gani. Kwanza yao ni hizi kumikumi and changaa!! Let me enjoy my Chapati for dinner.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/4/2008 Posts: 1,703
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kysse wrote:But linking Career woman to Alcohol is a fallacy. I bet most of us live in town and have never seen jobless women in shags drink till dawn. Including the tucucus sijui tuko na stress gani. Kwanza yao ni hizi kumikumi and changaa!! Let me enjoy my Chapati for dinner. Has someone sat on it Think Positive Test Negative
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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carygoh wrote:kysse wrote:But linking Career woman to Alcohol is a fallacy. I bet most of us live in town and have never seen jobless women in shags drink till dawn. Including the tucucus sijui tuko na stress gani. Kwanza yao ni hizi kumikumi and changaa!! Let me enjoy my Chapati for dinner. Has someone sat on it It's thinner in the middle,than the rest of the chapo,I bet it's the pan.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/25/2011 Posts: 2,103 Location: Nrb
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Much Know wrote:Amores wrote:Much Know wrote:CLK wrote:Lolest! wrote:Amores wrote:I think what all the men posting here need to know is that although it looks bad on a woman who goes out all night and turns up at 3am ,there is nothing glorious,sexy,responsible,worth emaluating,excting,honoroubale ( i could type more) about a man who does the same Toeni goggles mboys ! You don't get it. We are not equal. This equality of the sexes thing is an illusion. Call me conservative, but these women drunkards end up misbehaving. The drama we see at staff parties where a drunk married woman dnaces with a 23yr old and the boy grabs the chance to do the exploration. There's no resistance... And its okay for a married man to :- 1. Get drunk 2. Dance with a 23 yr-old woman and 3. Do the exploration?? We are equal but not the same, plug and socket may be complimentary so as to function as a unit but they are not the same, [ color=blue]that married man will not bring home a pregnancy from who knows who when he gets drunk Hii ya jaggernut na WIFE is mzuri sana. 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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kysse wrote:Thread becoming hot.  Hii ya jaggernut na WIFE is mzuri sana.  True, she has surprised me with some exotic moves, of course after some wine (she's abit shy when we are sober), some moves I've only seen kwa porn. Maybe I should crack her password kwa her laptop coz I believe she must be watching some porn - otherwise where did she learn those moves? But the end justifies the means - our sex life has become more and more explosive over the 10yrs.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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maka wrote:You guys have run with the thread....waaah Hata mimi ameshangaa!! @Chep, her brown bottles and the new catch cannot dare come near here! Watajifichio
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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CLK wrote:jaggernaut wrote:My wife is a career woman (earning a 6 figure salary) and i have come to believe that sometimes a little alcohol is good for the ladies. I always like it when my wife and I have some wine at home over the weekend (by the fireplace) coz it makes us relax after a tough week. It also really turns her on and makes her take charge in the bedroom, which I really like coz it turns her into a wild tiger in the bedroom, making me a very happy man. You should see the smile on my face especially during weekends. This is why i enjoy a glass of wine once in a while Read the book 'What Do Women Want (Adventures in the Science of Female Desire) - Daniel Bergner' Some books I think are written by feminists out to finish families! It might be true that men's s£xu@l peak is late teens and early twenties whilst for women its late twenties and their thirties... however when someone says that the desires get too hot for one man to satisfy and that the only way to curb divorces is for men to accept outside 'help'! Chida!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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jaggernaut wrote:kysse wrote:Thread becoming hot.  Hii ya jaggernut na WIFE is mzuri sana.  True, she has surprised me with some exotic moves, of course after some wine (she's abit shy when we are sober), some moves I've only seen kwa porn. Maybe I should crack her password kwa her laptop coz I believe she must be watching some porn - otherwise where did she learn those moves? But the end justifies the means - our sex life has become more and more explosive over the 10yrs.  Isn't it awsome what alcohol can do to women?? wonders,signs and speaking in many tongues in the bedroom Ok be grateful for her adventurous nature cz woi there are some hata wawekwe juu ya kuni au wapewe depot ya EABL,can't get hot.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2012 Posts: 15,980
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kysse wrote:jaggernaut wrote:kysse wrote:Thread becoming hot.  Hii ya jaggernut na WIFE is mzuri sana.  True, she has surprised me with some exotic moves, of course after some wine (she's abit shy when we are sober), some moves I've only seen kwa porn. Maybe I should crack her password kwa her laptop coz I believe she must be watching some porn - otherwise where did she learn those moves? But the end justifies the means - our sex life has become more and more explosive over the 10yrs.  Isn't it awsome what alcohol can do to women?? wonders,signs and speaking in many tongues in the bedroom. May be its time you ditched that bottle of Krest...Note...a bit of alcohol ni sawa, being drunk doesn't look good at all "There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore .
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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kysse wrote:jaggernaut wrote:kysse wrote:Thread becoming hot.  Hii ya jaggernut na WIFE is mzuri sana.  True, she has surprised me with some exotic moves, of course after some wine (she's abit shy when we are sober), some moves I've only seen kwa porn. Maybe I should crack her password kwa her laptop coz I believe she must be watching some porn - otherwise where did she learn those moves? But the end justifies the means - our sex life has become more and more explosive over the 10yrs.  Isn't it awsome what alcohol can do to women?? wonders,signs and speaking in many tongues in the bedroom. Agreed! Alcohol makes women relax and express their innermost feelings. I have come to realize that there's no better an aphrodisiac than a nice of bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot or Shiraz.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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Wah, looks like you guys had a heated and funny discussion all day. QUite an eye-opening discussion. I have had an opportunity to work and socialize with some of those young upwardly-mobile career ladies and seen how hard they party and drink themselves silly all night as though beer is suddenly going out of fashion. Funny thing, in some of their unguarded moments, they complain of how lonely they are and have no 'eligible men' willing to date them. And I've often wondered to myself, knowing what I do about their drinking habits (and all else they do whilst ostensibly under the influence), would I honestly and seriously date them? The answer is a resounding no. So many Kenyans today - both men & women - are unable/unwilling to socialize in the absence of alcohol. It's like we've been socialized not to just drink but to abuse alcohol. Drinking till they're out of their senses ain't good for anyone, whether man or woman, but it certainly is much worse on women. Choices do indeed have consequences. We can pretend to be westernized all we want but we can't really run away from the fact that by and large, ours is still a largely paternalistic society. It doesn't augur well trying to compete with men at drinking anyway. After all, equality is not the same thing as similarity. Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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murchr wrote:
May be its time you ditched that bottle of Krest...Note...a bit of alcohol ni sawa, being drunk doesn't look good at all
Forget that.I can get turned on bila alcohol.-it's a mind thing rem and can be as explosive as your mind dictates. I like being 100% aware of my sorroundings 24/7.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Rankaz13 wrote:Wah, looks like you guys had a heated and funny discussion all day. QUite an eye-opening discussion. I have had an opportunity to work and socialize with some of those young upwardly-mobile career ladies and seen how hard they party and drink themselves silly all night as though beer is suddenly going out of fashion. Funny thing, in some of their unguarded moments, they complain of how lonely they are and have no 'eligible men' willing to date them. And I've often wondered to myself, knowing what I do about their drinking habits (and all else they do whilst ostensibly under the influence), would I honestly and seriously date them? The answer is a resounding no. So many Kenyans today - both men & women - are unable/unwilling to socialize in the absence of alcohol. It's like we've been socialized not to just drink but to abuse alcohol. Drinking till they're out of their senses ain't good for anyone, whether man or woman, but it certainly is much worse on women. Choices do indeed have consequences.
We can pretend to be westernized all we want but we can't really run away from the fact that by and large, ours is still a largely paternalistic society. It doesn't augur well trying to compete with men at drinking anyway. After all, equality is not the same thing as similarity.
And also, much as it might irk many, women who propose to have wholesome marriages shouldn't be competing with men in the workplace. Have you read the book 'Secrets of fascinating womanhood'?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Mukiri wrote: women who propose to have wholesome marriages shouldn't be competing with men in the workplace.
 ..or wear trousers,occupy positions of authority,get promoted for hardwork,become pastors,stand before men. This need WHO's intervention.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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kysse wrote:Mukiri wrote: women who propose to have wholesome marriages shouldn't be competing with men in the workplace.
 ..or wear trousers,occupy positions of authority,get promoted for hardwork,become pastors,stand before men. This need WHO's intervention. Vanity Lorraine, all vanity... and misplaced priorities! You'd be better placed using your talents and acquired knowledge siring and bring up a brood and making a loving happy home. Not all lonely wrestling with men, in masculine jobs. You most of all need to read that book!
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Mukiri wrote:kysse wrote:Mukiri wrote: women who propose to have wholesome marriages shouldn't be competing with men in the workplace.
 ..or wear trousers,occupy positions of authority,get promoted for hardwork,become pastors,stand before men. This need WHO's intervention. Vanity Lorraine, all vanity... and misplaced priorities! You'd be better placed using your talents and acquired knowledge siring and bring up a brood and making a loving happy home. Not all lonely wrestling with men, in masculine jobs. You most of all need to read that book! So i should turn down my next promotion?? I say you can compete all you want, however not at the expense of your brood, spending all your time in the boardroom in the name of making money...
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