@pn, is Mary Mukindia a lecturer? What is the story?

This is the position to many church people, I mean those who just take their pastors' words as plain truth.

They condemn this kind of relationships, painting is like it is hell, eventually making those in it feel like they have done something wrong.

Many such people do not look critically at what their Scripture says. They tell these people you've sinned, you'll go to hell.

And these same people give a blind eye to mpango wa kando. Some of them even say that if my husband has mpango wa kando, it's better I do not know about it. Is this not pretending ad hypocrisy!! Of course no woman would accept husband to take another wife, but it does not mean this is sin.

So @pn even when you're married as the only wife, there're problems.
Similarly to those married as 2nd or 3rd or 4th wife, they have their joys and their sorrows too.
But when you try to insinuate that plural marriages are guaranteed failure, then you go wrong.

Your own Bible tells you how to treat 2nd or 3rd or 1000th wife. Only that your pastor does not read these in his sermons!!!

What now!
Am not saying anything.For all I know, she is on a jigger campaign mission.
Jiggers are no respecter of persons.
Me got no time for Crocodiles and Jiggers copulating.

Now how does what they do affect my rent??

..kwani he is the benchmark of people going to heaven?weee kila mtu abebe msalaba wake siku ya kiama ndio mtajua who was right and who was wrong...if you want 50 wives chukua if you kan remain faithful to 1 wyf well and good,faithful servant.