Rank: Elder Joined: 11/19/2007 Posts: 2,047
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Seeders wrote:good point. with women, you must always have a fallback. inaitwa insurance. hehehe. luttz wrote:@ Njunge & Yesu Wangu
I am with you on this one. I disclose what i am comfortable with. I also have to be prepared just in case she bolts from the relationship. There is no way I am going to share equally with her what I have spent years investing. As a man, you should always have plan B. With the new constitution and affirmative action women activists including FIDA are always ready to offer free services to the women; a man can not win the property battles in case of divorce. When I buy a house for the family in some leafy neighbourhood, I also buy another one for myself which she will never know about until I die. If I die, the will takes care of the disclosure. That's why you will never see poor people divorcing coz they have nothing to share. Wait until you buy that house in Lavington! That's the time you will discover the truth about love, trust,investments, women etc. Money corrupts more than power Hii ni 'wealth' ya masumuni. Women are investors too, by mid 30s,most women now have a place they call their own/ a substantial investments and taking care of a lot of other 'business'.I am yet to be convinced about these men who always talk about 'kufuatwa' 'and being careful about women and the love of money and property' Pesa iko wapi? If you do not trust a woman,you have no business being with her ( Nude or clothed) .And if you know you are with a woman who is likely to swindle you,then it is your issue and no,it is not universal. This is the 21st century.
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