@Mukiri you are the same guy who goes around quoting websites and others and when you're engaged you fake inability to read or you take cover until another convenient time to resurface!

Let me say this. I invite every one of you to stand at the gate of your place of work, or go to Easleigh, or go to town or at any uninversity of your choice, and talk to a Muslim lady.

I mean let us not ask Ruth Aura or Nelly Matheka... about how Muslim women feel.
Let us not ask CNN or Tom Brokaw... about how Muslim women feel.
Let us not ask Daily Nation or Substandard or Daily Press etc
Let us not ask non-Muslims about how Muslim women feel, how they live, what are their principles, what are their challenges.

If you want to be fair, ask a Muslim woman. Ask my wife (), ask my mother ...

You see. Ask a Muslim woman who knows her religion, who has a relationship with her Creator, who is stable in her cosiety, who has understanding of her responsibility... ask her.
And after that, I think you should be fair that you don't need to ask someone else.

But the problem is, no one really wants to ask Muslim women. We want to take pictures of women in Afghanistan, and pictures of women in Palestine, and pictures of women in Pakistan.
And we want to listen to what people want to say about female circumcission as if Muslims have women thousands, thirty thousand all over the world are being circumcised!

Some crazy Maina Kageni stuff!!!

Thats a flimsy challenge. Women in muslim land are not given options. Muslim women who move to other liberal countries abandon those male chauvinistic believes ASAP! That is no news.

And since we are 'challenging' each other, you have been dully challenged to prove that you are not a greedy egoistical name calling fanatical chauvinist by divorcing three wives, remaining with one and becoming a Christian as we all worship the same God. And don't make excuses because I doubt anyone will frown upon you if you still insist on washing your a$$ with water, after your conversion.

PS: I'm glad you are learning, by writing short readable responses.

The number of years we live is not ours to decide. I think we also should live life without being preoccupied with what we will be remembered for. Contrary to popular belief the world really doesn't remember anyone. Live life the best way you know how for yourself and not to be remembered. Women loved this guy, from the story, at least three women. They must have seen something positive in him, don't you think Kysse?

@Faa below are my answers:

1. Sharing cowives - I have discussed polygamy here. It is an option available. It is available for those who have high libid* as @tycho said a while ago. Why are you complaining? There are those women who are willing to share.

2. Hijab - Women covering their bodies is not oppression.
Their fathers didn't tell them to do that. Their brothers didn't tell them to do that. Their sons didn't tell them to do that. It is religious obligation. Women, draw clothing accross their bossoms and do not allow their natural ornaments to be showed except to close family.
What are natural ornaments of women, incase you do not know what they are?
Their breasts, their shapes that happen to be different from that of men, should be covered.

Just incase you as a Christian do not remember
just 40 years ago, Christian women never went to church wihtout covering their heands. Ask your grand mothers.
And just 50-60 years ago, a Christian woman would never come outside with a short skirt. Even the nuns themselves today have succumbed to modernity. Because the nuns who committed themselves to the church and religious life, how do they dress? They cover themselves and nothing on them was seen except the face and hands.

This is not something that only Muslim women were told; but Jewish women, CHristian women and Muslim women were doing this.

Now modern civilization has asked women not to wear that, they could wear bikinis, does not mean that our culture (and God's wisdom, for those who are religious) is wrong and the modernist are right, no! Now for those who know the wisdom, woman covering herself properly is a protection to her, it is a distinction for her.
She will not be molested, she will not be insulted, and no need for a man to stare at her because there's nothing appearing of her that would cause any unatural attraction.
Therefore, it is more than unlikely she can come and go with decency and dignity and their natural ornaments would not be a liability for her like it happens when you see women who are wearing clothing that when you see them it seems as if they have painted on themselves!

All you have to do is see these two women and you can see the problems that exist.

IMPORTANT: Of course, it does not mean that every woman that does not cover herself completely, it does not mean that she's immoral. But a ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.

For example, if I asked you what is your PIN number? You wouldn't tell me. If I came to visit you in your house, you won't have certificates of deposits in front of me, you won't have your jewels infront of me, you won't have your stack of money and savings infront of me distributed just because I'm a friend and we should be transparent.
No! You have those valuables in a place that is safe. Might be a bank, might be safe-deposit-box.
But that's just money. That's just tangible things. So our mothers, our wives, our daughters should be covered and in a safe place.

And this is our religion.

3. Buibui is not religious dress. It has no religious significance. Dressing in Islam can be any colour: must not be tight to show shape, must not be transparent, must not be too short.

4. Going to mosque: you have never seen women go to the mosque? And you claim to have lived in Mombasa. @Leona please tell him if I'm lying.

5. Amina Mohammmed - we don't know who this lady is. I already asked you to ask a Muslim woman who knows her religion, who has a relationship with her Creator, who is stable in her cosiety, who has understanding of her responsibility... ask her.
And after that, I think you should be fair that you don't need to ask someone else.