girlfriend???.... beaten????.... bank manager???..... hospitalized???..... good sex after coming from hospital????..... Jesus Holy Christ! what crap is that?

@gesowan, that woman cant be helped. Unless she feels she is tired of being treated the way she's being treated, no amount of telling her will change her, unfortunately. It has to come from within the woman. Self esteem, self respect, self love. SELF LOVE.

The best you can tell her is to make sure she has a will done because her boyfriend will kill her one of these days, and you'll try to be sad at her burial. In fact, remind her, that "David"(lets call the boyfriend that), could be taking some other woman who he treats like a raw egg out for dinner while she is nursing some ugly wounds in hospital. When you pass by some nice flower shop, stop purposefully and look at the flowers, then ask her which ones she likes. Then tell her, "When David kills you, which he might with the beating he gives you, I'll buy you those ones for your wreath". It might wake her up.

if she justifies that the sex is good after the beating, then, we can safely say that she provokes the guy so that she is beaten so that she can enjoy some good sex. if she was my daughter, I'd give her some thorough whacking for being stupid!!!

There's something my mom always told us "mutumia ahuragwo wihurite"... someone translate for my brother @Mcrg.

thanks so much will surely let the lady know....and thanks all in Wazua we not only get rich but gather wisdom