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Jamani
#51 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:30:58 PM
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@Ric dees, well I pray that God bless you more so your wife..... I know a friend who moved in or rather got married to his wife and move to her house, He calls the shots ooh yes but his relatives are not welcome, his house is one sided....
Having said that i know we have within us good people who will not put material before their families so @Xtina, all the best.
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youcan'tstopusnow
#52 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:35:34 PM
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What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!

I think it wil depend on the man you get married to. If he has a house also, then you will have to decide which one is most convenient to BOTH of you as a family. You might then decide to rent the other apartment or sell and use the funds in any way to choose. If he doesn't have a house, then it will not make economic sense to rent/husband to take another mortgage while kuna nyumba ingine. But wanaume wako na pride. So if he insists to rent you will decide what is the best move.

Note also that by the time you get married you may not your current house fit for current standards

GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE
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Mastermind
#53 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:45:03 PM
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youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!


... Na utumishi kwa wote.
If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
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essyk
#54 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:47:32 PM
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@jamani
My sis owned her house before she married.
Her (now) hubby was a med student then,so he moved in after they married.
The med course was very exp. and all his money went into it.So my sis took care of the house bit.
When he went for masters they were given a house at Kenyatta and they moved in.
After completion and now working a dream job,they bought a bigger house in a great location and they love each other to bits.
I think a humble man/woman with the right mentality will have no issues regarding this arrangement.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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mkonomtupu
#55 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:47:54 PM
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youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!



I keep wondering the same thing the man in the 21st century is a prestige item...your friends have one so you also want to seen with one.
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Jamani
#56 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:50:49 PM
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youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!


be careful watchman atakufanyia kazi kwa nyumba? that protection is meanly provision,....
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youcan'tstopusnow
#57 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:53:59 PM
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Jamani wrote:
youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!


be careful watchman atakufanyia kazi kwa nyumba? that protection is meanly provision,....


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Tema mate!
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Jamani
#58 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:58:22 PM
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youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
Jamani wrote:
youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
What is the role of the man in the 21st Century? Hiyo mambo ya protection ni upuzi. Hiyo ni kazi ya watchman!!!


be careful watchman atakufanyia kazi kwa nyumba? that protection is meanly provision,....


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Tema mate!

Nime tema thuu!!! Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
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FundamentAli
#59 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 3:10:57 PM
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xtina wrote:
Hi all,

Thank you all for your responses, I have been out for some time, hence my silence. After much consultations and prayers, I decided to use the registered property services. I have been practically trolling through their websites the past three months looking for something that would have fit my specifications and budget. I have three choices, the first one is listed in Hass Consult:the Casa Mia. The other is Villa Care; I have identified 2 property I might purchase. I have made plans to visit the 3 choices before I decide on which one to buy.

On the issue of marriage, I talked to my pastor and his advice was to follow my own heart.His take was that I should make plans which are good to me for now, then worry about living plans when I'm actually married. I would have loved to hear some ladies' experience on this living arrangements issue. Hopefully by November I shall give myself a birthday present of a home smile

Now that you are at the final stage, just check and see who will finish the paperwork fastest. Do not agree to pay all cash and move in to wait for the paperwork. Talk to your lawyer who hopefully deals with many transactions and they can give you some incites from experience before settling into what to buy
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Dia
#60 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 3:42:03 PM
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