There is a formula I heard about on TV several years ago and you might want to try it.
RULE 1: Eat whatever your heart desires
RULE 2: Eat as much as you wish
RULE 3: Each morning, decide what you want to eat that day and the quantity [for all meals and snacks] and write it down on paper. Don not deny yourself anything you feel a craving for. Do this before taking your breakfast
RULE 4: Stick to the meal plan. Do not add or subtract anything except water. If you had decided to take two cups of tea and a client offers you a soda, decline it and ask for water instead.
NB: I have never needed to lose weight, therefore I have never tried this formula.
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