@Lolest, wewe sasa unajifunga. From what you've said, you are a working class, single dude, with no history with her, so, "EAT THAT FISH", lakini mwaga nje kama hautatumia CD. (But i would prefer you use CD).
As long as she doesn't fix you with a ball, or trying to migrate permanently to your house, KUTA VITU!!!!
Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.” ― Rashi