Easier said.

My advise.Let them give each other time.When they have both healed it will be easier to seat and talk.

If madam has not found a richer man she will come back.Hii ni mahangaiko tuu ya dunia.

Those demonic things that afflict families once in a while.

This is hoping your neighbour told you the truth.

But if there is a lie and maybe your jirani has a kamama in Eldy.....the story will be abit long.

Na... bibi akiwa mang'aa mrudishe kwao... remember the song?

If the lady went out to look for a richer man then she should never come back whether she finds one or not. her heart is simply not with the husband.

Mwanamke akiwa mang'aa mrudishe kwao.

Tell the man to leave that woman alone.

A woman who genuinely loves and cares for her husband cannot do that to him.

Me thinks your friend is leaving out some details. The way I see it;
1. It does not make sense to leave a house free of rent to go pay rent elsewhere, if it was cash issues, she would have continued living in the Nai house, after all the man is in Eldy, gives her enuf space.
2. If she was moving in with another man, I doubt she would take the old furniture, and would probably not want to take the children immeadiately.

Conclusion, she was running away from the Man. @Segemia, you need to get the whole story from the man, or talk to the wife to find out the other side of the story.