Aiii @Alpha, I really think you are being naive here! Ati do not expose her to activities and areas that will spoil her.

Mzee, You simply cannot chunga a full grown woman. You can only hope that she had decided to marry you because she loves you and wants to have a family with you. That way she will know what is good and do it. If she decides to do the bar thing, she will not need you to show her around.

Mr. Bellshade, I really hope you have not gotten yourself an inexperienced girl, wowed her with mulla or whatever, and made her agree to marriage. It will come to hound you badly.

Not playing with it literally. But it works for young women (she was 23 too).

Take it from me: along time ago, back from a long trip, I bought my wife a BIG, beautiful, white teddy bear and she still has it to date. Still very clean. Even the kids didn't mess with this particular one.

NB: Just to pre-empt your next 'wonder': no that was not the only gift.

@specky ditto!!

@Robinhood
- I said expose her to good activities. I just gave my examples. But it's everybody's choice what you expose your wife to. But do it at your own risk, she can do it better.
- I didn't say "chunga a full grown woman". Read my post again.
- Muhammad (pbuh) did not marry her when she was 6 or 7 years old. She got engaged. It was the culture then, not religion. Even African communities did this until the other day. (Let's not digress to this one. Unless you want me to tell you more about it. But not in @bellshade's thread)

Boss all i can say coming to wazua for advice will leave u more confused than before..

huku watu wamekula chida mingi sana...

HEY!!

40s is NOT the Rumba Generation, we did (do) Soul Music, Break dance, Moon walk, Michael Jackson.

Rumba!! my foot.