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King G
#41 Posted : Thursday, August 16, 2012 5:51:54 PM
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I need to be a Pstor, yani you are consulted on everything even on landing or lack of it heh heh heh Laughing out loudly
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My 2 cents
#42 Posted : Thursday, August 16, 2012 6:07:00 PM
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Xtina, marry a REAL man. Such a man will not have ego issues regarding where you live. It is the the ones with little insecurities that have all the ego issues. Sorry if I have stepped on several toes but I tell it like it is!
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Ali Baba
#43 Posted : Thursday, August 16, 2012 9:07:59 PM
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I agree with 2 Cents.I usually encounter wage earners earning a meager salary from a bank with a big ego.They want to buy big cars and live in kileleshwa~~~~
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Mastermind
#44 Posted : Thursday, August 16, 2012 10:05:15 PM
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King G wrote:
I need to be a Pstor, yani you are consulted on everything even on landing or lack of it heh heh heh Laughing out loudly

You won't be consulted and i know why.
If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
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kyt
#45 Posted : Thursday, August 16, 2012 11:40:47 PM
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2 cents spot on.
LOVE WHAT YOU DO, DO WHAT YOU LOVE.
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Am
#46 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 9:27:42 AM
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Drunkard

Marriage is a worthless institution??? It is difficult and uphill but not worthless. What is easy in life anyway, including drinking??

Xtina, Just do your due diligence when buying. Have a good lawyer guide you through the process and all should be well. No one can advise if you are gettig a good value for money or not, other than yourself - do your market survey well and compare prices as much as possible.

Do not let anyone lie to you that a man will be comfortable living in your house. That is for sure. And please do not seek advise from ladies as far as this matter is concerned. I have no problem in you consulting your pastor but remember - HE IS A HUMAN BEING.

My best wishes.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
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Dia
#47 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 9:55:07 AM
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@Xtina, on the marriage part, I know 3 single ladies who bought apartments. Two got married shortly after and the respective husbands moved in and took over other financial obligations like buying the family car, investing in a plot to build their house later on, etc. The marriages are good, as far as I can tell, and I'm a really close friend.

The 3rd one is not married but she has thoroughly enjoyed her home and is almost through paying for it. She is now planning on buying another apartment.


Oh yeah, I also know another married mama who got a mortgage, the husband made the deposit and the monthly payments come from her pay. Depends on how well the two of you plan your finances together.

The moving in of the man after marriage depends on his personality and ego.
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Am
#48 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 10:53:30 AM
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2 Cents, Ali baba etc.. You are simply not in touch with reality.

It is not about men having ego buy the Male God created and his hope for this male...Provider and the head of family.Period. How does a person exepected to be the head Join the lady in the lady's house. Who marries who in this case.

Wacheni mchezo.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
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Jamani
#49 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 1:24:47 PM
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Am wrote:
2 Cents, Ali baba etc.. You are simply not in touch with reality.

It is not about men having ego buy the Male God created and his hope for this male...Provider and the head of family.Period. How does a person exepected to be the head Join the lady in the lady's house. Who marries who in this case.

Wacheni mchezo.

True but not for indians sorry hindus
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Ric dees
#50 Posted : Friday, August 17, 2012 2:09:17 PM
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@Xtina good to hear you are trying to do something bout it. Tell you what, i lived with tow other housemates on a 3bed flat and my girlfriend then (now wife) lived in her own apartment - which she was paying for, she would come over as i would visit her.

Time came and moved in her apartment and eventually got married and you know what she continued paying for it, so many years later with children to boot, we are still there and happy. I am comfortable in my own skin and i find it ridiculous that paying rent/buying a house will define me as a man/head of the house.
I call the shots in my house always have but i do consult my wife am not an idiot and maybe thats probably where we are where we are. My advice get a REAL man who is not bothered by non-issues there far bigger things to think about in this world believe me!! Good luck!

The greatest danger in times of turbulence is not the turbulence; it is to act with yesterday's logic.
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