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I would dump her arse!!
Robinhood
#31 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 1:02:49 PM
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FACT - Any woman who displays ify-ify-ness in a relationship, be it coz of pere pere of her doofus buddies or pressure from inlaws, is not fit to be your mboch, let alone your wife!
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Msoto, you really cracked me up.

BTW, do guys still fall for this crap??? Ati she wants time alone!!!, Months to the the wedding? Eishhh

Time for the brother to move on if he loves himself. Unless he is willing to wait until the other guy gets bored with her and dumps her, then she comes back running , then another guy crops up daysto the wedding, then... catch my drift?

Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
jguru
#32 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 2:43:46 PM
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Intelligentsia
#33 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 4:07:35 PM
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@lisaox, thats truth, it has nothing to do with egos and all that.
of course the same applies to guys - many have wanted to marry a partcicular lady but it just never happened. Ask that guy who wanted to marry Clintons daughter Chelsea. Cuts both ways.
Don Care
#34 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 4:52:28 PM
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What is this 'space' that ladies are always asking for?? Honestly,if its space she wants then she should be dating an astronaut..

Seriously though, tough times are the real test of people's true colors and a couple will be certain to go through a number of rough patches in their relationship so you need to stick it out and deal with those issues together whenever they arise. That is if she really wants to be together..Your either in or your out,there's no "time out".
Wendz
#35 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 5:20:11 PM
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Let me put myself in her shoes and see what she is thinking....

Why would i want some time alone months before the wedding... major reason

1. There is this other guy that i like much more than the guy proposing to marry me hence, i am pushing him to propose before i settle for this 2nd rate boyfriend. If he doesnt soon enough, i might have to settle for this but thats not my first priority... that decision will be as last resort.

2. My parents do not particularly like this guy and have warned me about him. I have seen/experienced some of his behaviours that i am not sure i can live with... i have to reconcile my 'feelings' to live with it, or to walk away and the walking away decision is becoming stronger than 'living with it' hence torn between. What if i dont get someone else better than this guy (as bad as he may be looking now)?

3. Am just jittery and not sure he really is not gonna change especially if the 'marriage' thing is being prompted by something else other than love - eg, the status of my family, his insecurities, etc.
2012
#36 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 5:22:53 PM
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ProverB wrote:
when a dude has his fiance shut down on him...shut him out..pleading for some time alone..bila communicatin nor text..she just wants to be left alone for a while.. 6 months to the wedding.. best course of action?


Maybe all she needs is time to do some soul searching. Give her the time, no need to dump her after all if she decides not to continue with the relationship si they will just break up... ama?
So my advice is; unless the guy needs a quick break to go engage another chic and not to save face then he should wait (chances are they will break up anyway).

BBI will solve it
:)
gathinga
#37 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 6:26:00 PM
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Don Care wrote:
What is this 'space' that ladies are always asking for?? Honestly,if its space she wants then she should be dating an astronaut..
.


kweli hapo!Applause
famooz
#38 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 7:49:10 PM
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Hhehehe re Don care, you are very right:)
Mwituria
#39 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 8:08:51 PM
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msotoville
#40 Posted : Monday, August 23, 2010 8:59:30 PM
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Kusadikika wrote:

This jamaa has already been dumped. There is nothing for him to dump. Men go to great lengths to impress and win over women. They take her out, buy her things and do all sorts of things. When finally the lady accepts to marry them they think that they have won and they think to themselves that the victory is due to all the hard work they had put in.


Boss, this is the age of sausage funga. Women aren't as gullible as they used to be in our day when a pack of 5 bob chipo was enough to win her undivided loyalty.

By the time she agrees to say "I do" and goes through the motions of the preparing for the wedding, you have been kaguliwa-d and kanganywa-d thoroughly....from mannerisms to finances, she knows you like inside of her handbag.

If you thing kumwangushia mistari, coffee dates and weekends at the coast are enough to sway her decision, you must've been out of the dating game as long as I have (18 years).

Methinks in the case of this unfortunate comrade, the lady found someone with deeper pockets. Why stick to the Lorian Swamp when you can have the Marianna Trench? smile
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