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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/6/2008 Posts: 3,579
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Where is the big trouble here? Young girls half your age are coping with your situation or even worse and going on with their life's. My only advice is that you start using your head now,challenges 10times this are coming your way. One question,as a 30 year old virgin,no man had begged you as hard as the naked man who knelt down? Si ungempatia gari ya KBJ 247K,ama 'bui bui virgins style' Ngomongo wewe! Ninajua Yote! Ras Kienyeji Man
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/16/2007 Posts: 1,320
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Aii ? Somethings fishy about your story,cant put my finger on it. I doubt this is authentic. Then i saw the same story same day here http://www.experiencepro...t/657653#linkrec_657653
..... the sons of Zeruiah .....
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/28/2006 Posts: 102
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@ Mtu-biz in future we are goimg to demand authenicitity of such experiences. But we can give a benefit of doubt for this one. If you look at the registration date @ SK of this guy is the same the date that the story was posted at that site. @ new.member are you an alter ego or authentic. exonerate yourself. i too
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/28/2007 Posts: 290 Location: Nairobi
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@much know; whats that? sounds new stuff at SK...
'Si ungempatia gari ya KBJ 247K,ama 'bui bui virgins style' Ngomongo wewe!'
Life is worth living cos God planned it to be so.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/24/2008 Posts: 33
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@ new.member
pole but all I can tell you is as a xtian,God warns you by throwing pebbles and hitting you and if you keep ignoring he will hit you with a huge stone thus waking you up.
Am sure now you are wide awake and thinking straight.
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/8/2008 Posts: 359
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I am not a Bible chap. But there is a verse from Ecclesiastes that was one of a few that finally managed to penetrate my hard head and stick from my Sunday School days. It has pulled me out of a lot of messes and crises in my short life.
There is hope for all the living. Kama haujakufa mambo bado. If it did not kill you,then there must be a reason and potential for good lies ahead. I call it destiny. Soldier on lady.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/6/2008 Posts: 3,579
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Extrablessed For KBJ,see the follwing http://www.stockskenya.c...?stk=1002&top=15339
From real life experience,i can tell you that some of the bui bui clad cover a lot of naughtiness. Although i turned down the offer,when i was begging the bui bui semi-unclad virgin offered:- 'wataka m****u,ehhh! ehhh!'..soo calmly in a mellow nice voice ....more foul play then again....'wataka ......eh eh'....my gosh i have never stopped laughing about it and it was years ago. Another pal had a very similar experience. I used to think it a myth but it is all so true. Would work for the two desperados in this story. Ninajua Yote! Ras Kienyeji Man
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/13/2006 Posts: 2,589
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That's what happens when you get into your first relationship 31 years after you were born! smano BEER IS LIVING PROOF THAT GOD LOVES US AND WANTS US TO BE HAPPY!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/5/2007 Posts: 627
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@Kaimbaga! I will not feel shame on me! No way!
But if this happened to me, I would definately feel shame on me!
Immorality: The morality of those who are having a better time!
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/12/2008 Posts: 58
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Removed all his clothes and there was a naked man before me who was once my B/F,do you know what I gave in even though I did not enjoy the game and to cut the long story short,he impregnated me.
In as much as your situation is remoseful,you left me amused by the above words. Moving forward,l think you need to change your character and morals. Otherwise men will be 'removing their clothes' and impreganting you all the time.
Eti the guy went down on his knees and thats why you could not 'disappoint' him despite not 'enjoying the game'. This is rubbish. You need to understand men pschology. Like Moi used to say if you are woing a girl you promise everything but after that life goes back to normal.
At 31 you display the highest level of ignorance about men. Where have you been all these years?
Well don' t abort and next time a man removes all his clothes cry for help!
die trying
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/12/2009 Posts: 21
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@all,I am very much grateful for your advice. I have taken all your comment positively. For those who are abusing me,lemme just say thanks to that coz am reaping what I sowed. For them that have really encouraged me,there is no other way I can appreciate your assistance,once again I say thank you.
Yesterday was a day to be remembered,even as I was seeking help as synonymous person via the internet,it was also the first day I shared my situation with a collogue of mine live. I have been stressed and I insisted that she has to accompany me for a cup of coffee,being my best friend she accepted my offer and as we were in some hotel next to Ambassador,I broke the news. I got an overwhelming support that never expected and being that I somebody has now known what is happening in my womb,abortion is not a story for me even at gun point. I realized that she was also in the same situation 13yrs ago. She was a born again Christian and she just went underground. So either way,it was not that easy coz she even lost her self esteem up-to-date.
I have made up my mind:-
That my unborn baby will only die a natural death that was planned for him/her by God. If the father cannot afford meeting with his/her eyes,let him shoot the two of us and we shall be gone and leave him in peace to enjoy the world,if not,we are here to stay.
@Mtu-Biz
A desperate situation calls for desperate action. I registered in the two sites trying to get some help. There is nothing fishy about that in fact I was also planning to register with another one called MYLOT but the advices I have gotten from my own people is just enough. You can choose to doubt. I also wished that what is happening to me was just a dream but what do I do,it’s real,it’s me,its life.
Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/17/2008 Posts: 10
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@newmember
1John 1:9 When we confess our sins,God is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
You can not change the past,so i pray that you will have peace,courage and hope for a better tomorrow. If you need a friend... am also a sister gal!
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/26/2008 Posts: 90
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I don't want to appear insensitive but if I have to tell you the truth,I must say you are naive and hence this guy is taking advantage of you. In love relationships,once trust is betrayed don't give second chances,you will be betrayed again.
But considering now you are pregnant,my advice would be,don't abort this baby. Give birth to it and God will surely take care of it. But most of all,forget about this guy completely because he will ruin your life completely. He does not deserve you. If possible change your number or bar his number so that you can start the healing process. The sooner the better,otherwise this guy is a cancer that can turn malignant,
Engine
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/13/2006 Posts: 2,589
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I think the moral of this story is 'have sex early when you can' because clearly saving it for 3 decades does not yield jack....I think a lot of purpoted xtians live a life of ignorance such that when s*** hits the fan they're left helpless. many shun contraceptives (as the church has commanded them) and haven't the faintest clue about sex - even in theory bwana,these things were taught in home science and Biology,at least every woman should know about postina 2,what happens when you're raped? Anyway,i digress. Even as I make fun of the situation,I'm sorry that you've had to go through what you're going through at such an age,now that you know what you need to do,next time you find yourself in almost similar circumstances just take time to consult - there'll be a lot of naked men you'll see! Good luck smano BEER IS LIVING PROOF THAT GOD LOVES US AND WANTS US TO BE HAPPY!
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/26/2008 Posts: 391
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Sio kwa ubaya,but some of the responses are very funny ...and I agree with @Mtu Biz....this story is too detailed I'm having a hard time believing it....nway kama ni ukweli,sorry .....listen to @brav,I have seen his beautiful family so he must know what he is talking about....
Men who are occupied in the restoration of health to other men,by the joint exertion of skill and humanity,are above all the great of the earth. They even partake of divinity,since to preserve and renew is almost as noble as to create.VOLTAIRE.
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/27/2008 Posts: 94
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@wa p,dude that was one killer punch line you inserted there .... ati don't tell your pastor,he will page you before you get the first baby. Then ati the chuch she is a member of is a hell-bound terminus. But you must give it to the villain he nailed that 31 year old nail with one stroke of the hammer. There was a thread here posted by some medic about how horny the female is when she is ovulating (new member) should have read it. But what the heck,children are blessings from God. As a man thinketh so is he As A Man Thinketh So is He
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/15/2009 Posts: 28
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kindly dont abort for to avoid spoilling the name of the guy.
plz plz,if you do,chances of getting yourself in deep trouble are very high.
Remember God above everybody else,dont disapont YOUR GOD FOR THE SAKE OF A MANS NAME.
look up and live
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/21/2008 Posts: 42
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@new.member I feel you mbaya mbofu. It is a tough challenge to be in but what i tell people is 'just try first to be at peace with God and then with people'. Whatever has happened cant be reversed and it is only time to tell God 'I am sorry' and forge on in life.Abortion is not possible and let the same man who loves you accept before all the church members that 'I ate matunda ya edeni'. On the other hand,It is sad especially for men to behave like 'bull of Oaklands' even when our sisters arent willing. I dont also understand the science here that the sister was doing without her feelings but she got pregnant!! I thought all the homornes were asleep ama??
Otherwise new.member,I am a guy working with an organisation dealing with HIV and AIDs and do councel victims that they shouldnt think it is the end of life coz even the bible we believe in says several times that 'it came to pass' meaning everything will come to pass.
'A newspaper has three things to do. One is to amuse,another is to entertain and the rest is to mislead.' Ernest Bevin
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/20/2009 Posts: 11
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Genuine advice ... your unborn child is probably the best thing to come out of that relationship. Cut off all contact with this man,avoid him like the plague and concentrate on picking up the pieces of your life and preparing to welcome the SILVER LINING in all this - your child. You can forgive him later,for now forget him and concentrate on yourself and your child. And thats that.
Life is complex,it has a real and an imaginary part
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/12/2008 Posts: 74
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http://www.catholic.org/...ics/story.php?id=34247. May be this may help. Pole Dada,mambo hupata watu na si miti. Take heart and move on. Abort not and believe me you you will never regret it. Jesus fell 3 times on His way to calvary. He is God He could have easily carried the cross without falling but that was so,so that as christians,we rise up every time we fall and continue with our Journey of Salvation. I echo what somebody said here saints are saints because they did rise up on falling! All the best and may God Almighty see u through! JESUS AND I LOVE YOU! Jesus Loves me this I know,for the bible tells me so!
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