@new.member

Who told you married women do not fear/totally scared of giving birth simply because they are married????? Where did you read that husbands help their wives with the physical pain??????....... The most they can do is give moral and emotional support.... Its only one day,you will go through it...

(I have decided to amend the this post) On the HIV test,i think you can go now just in case,then after another three months but doctors here can advise.

On a lighter note,ati this high-profile-church-member-would-be-PASTOR was on his knees stak(sp) naked begging and he had already told you he is marrying another woman not even his ex who constantly found in his house??? What an ugly scene! and you gave in??? Bure kabisa wewe!!! (I cant stop laughing at that scene!)

By the way,am a sister gal.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@Wendz.Why are you reminding me of the scene.At that moment the guy was very remorseful and said the quick action he took was due to anger.He really begged me and honestly seeng something i have been seeing,only but at a distance from mad men walking naked down the street and some silly guys peeing on the road side,this time round at a close range saluting up the sky.A man i once loved.He told me that he has not slept with that lady.It just happened.He told me that if i disappoint him at that state he would die.Pliz i dont want to imagin how i was fooled through such begging.


I have always thought that i was tough untill when that happened to me.I didnt know that i have only been depending on the grace of God.But i wonder,where was God this time round.Why did he allow this to happen to me? Why,why .Why???????????????????







Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!

Being Christian is no excuse for bad behavior. Looking down at fornicators/ thives/ aborters in contempt is NOT Christian behavior. If the people in your church/ community will shame you for your because you got a child out of wedlock,take comfort in the fact their action is not Christian. The new testament is full of stories of Jesus showing love where the community showed contempt. Think of Jesus and the tax collector,Jesus and the prostitute ... Count how many people threw stones when they were asked 'He that is without sin be the first to cast a stone'

You are not the first to become pregnant out of wedlock.

It sounds like this man should not be included in your life plan. Do not blame him for your woes,accept your responsibility in this situation and move on. Pray for the strength to do what is right. you know the answer to that,what is right. The right thing is the constant voice you cannot ignore. it is not panicky,it is not shouting. it is calm and sure it is right. pray to hear the voice. His yoke is easy,and His burden is light. if you doubt,try remember your problems before having sex with this guy and try remember what the voice said.

It is a real tragedy and testament to how hypocryitcal society/ church has become that a woman would consider abortion to spare herself shame. The church (we the people) should feel that shame.

am really disappointed by your actions. why...

1. at 31 you should be focused.

2. you are a cheap lady just like others have said.

3. you must be a very ignorant person.

4. dont say you are a xtian.




lets meet at the hague

@ new.member,tell you what,if you are an honest person go to that church and tell your story before he murders you. The truth will set you free'''.

Who ever sends one to kill is a killer himself.


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