me thinks if you were in @mlokole's shoes,you would understand. I am imagining ati a chic working under me,got a kid with my hubby and am catering for everything including emotional support and probably she is even rude and disrespectiful? So does the guy support the kid in any way? is he allowed to visit the kid at his boss house in the name of visiting the kid? If he is not,he has no mercy for the kid and how she survives and what she becomes when she grows up,why have mercy on him? aaaaaaaah,am usually very level headed in many things but in this case,i honestly would pull a fast one on the guy! seriously! nothing personal,its a tough world!!! Chances are,if i was in this second guy's position,i would probably have looked for another job kitambo even sacrificing to take a lesser pay if thats what it takes to move away from the situation.... so... as of right now i think i would pull a fast one then deal with repentance later... may be if i was in the actual situation,i would think differently.
Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.