madhaquer wrote:Liv wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:FRM2011 wrote:
Hallo wazuans,
Lets say your son had 430 marks, and his 1st choice was Alliance, which means he is assured of admission at Alliance. Then a good private school offers him full scholarship for 4 years. The normal school fees for the private school is in the range of 300K per year.
Would you take the offer ??
Alliance it is for formation and life skills.
I support this.... and I was at Alliance. He will discover his other talents and skills.
In the private school, that wants to make a name, it will be purely academic pursuit and nothing much. At every school, a child will discover other talents and skills.
At Alliance, it is about being with peers. Other young adults who achieved the same academically. They will challenge him/her academically. Whether the child excels in extra curricular activities depends on several other factors. There will definitely be students from very diverse backgrounds which is perhaps a positive thing.
At the private school. You really need to check if they will be other peers and if the child will be challenged to compete. The scholarship could be more for marketing the school than for the benefit of the child.
The other thing to consider is the network of associates and contacts that the child builds which goes far and beyond the 4 years they will be in the school.
I would take the private school option. He will still make great contacts at the school. The parents of this school will be well to do folks generally who will open opportunities for their kids in life and by extension this boy will have great networks.
A private school may be more deliberate on extracurricular activities.
The boy needs to be careful not to develop a star mentality. Parents must focus deliberately on him getting extra tuition if need be over the holidays and must set high grade targets, not gauging performance by class position.
The private school might look up to him to be a leader and role model for the other kids. This cuts two ways, it may stress him too much or he may just excel beyond expectations. This is depending on his personality.
Parents can use the saved school fees for constructive/ investment activities that will pay off in future.
However, you really need to investigate this private school. 300k per year does not sound prestigious at all. Is it a start up? Is it well equiped? Do they have enough teachers? Does the scholarship include all other payments? You may find that extracurricular activity payments cost more than the school fees at Alliance.
I think which particular high school one attends is overrated. What matters is what you learn while there, both academic and non academic.
They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.