Her Majesty,

How is your relationship with his parents??...Have you discussed this with them? I think they would be of help-unless he also insults them too. The kid definately makes never getting in contact with him hard,bcoz he will alwez want to come under guise of 'kuona mtoto'.That will need help of the professionals the likes of TRS.

One thing is clear though,relationshipwise....Bail Out as fast as possible.He can only hurt you as far as you allow him.But my spirit is not convinced that there is something you are holding back.......Is there an event that broke the two of you up that bad.....That made him so vile against even ur mom? Iko kitu ililipua vita.Am NOT in any way in support of that childish insulting behaviour of his.May God Bless You.


For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners,so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous.
Romans 5:19

@waswa

for a split second there..... you sounded like one of the guys in that list you presented.... and not the preacher!!! ... on a very light note...

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Taz n djinn ths man u knw wt excuse he starts giving when i ask him why he abuses my mum he says that he was angry n at that time he was uncontrollable n the moment i refuse to pick up his calls or reply to his texts he knows the only medicine to me is throwin insults at me! Yeah n definately that'll make me talk to him! 4 real even if there's a problem and m on the wrong how does he expect my mum to listen to him later he says he doesn't care! By the way both of his parents died,my mum never converses with him so hakuna kuzoeana that i can swear! U guys i wish you could try and understand!

The world would not want to know the storm you encountered in the sea..the problem is ..did you bring back the ship???

@Your Royal Highness,for your peace sake,let him scatter. if he can insult your mum on her face,you can only imagine what he would do to you once you are joined in holy matrimony. its a wise decision you makin'...be free...

From a Little Spark may burst a Mighty Flame...

I had a workmate whose boyfriend used to beat her when they were courting. We advised her to end the relationship cause thos were signs of things to come but she went on and married nhim officially.

One month into the marriage she was in hospital from battering. but she stuck

She gave birth a Year later through CS and the hubby could noe wait for her to get well. He Hit her repeatedly exactly where she had stiches. And this kept on going for some timr that she took a Year to heal from the CS.

Bottom Line - If He is doing it now when you courting.... You aint seen nothing yet. Wait till you get married to him. My Advise Run run run