After The Period Of Him Dozzing Off In My Bed, Shipped To His, Wakes up Yelling in His Bed, Is Picked, Dozzes Off, Back To His Bed... That Was Very Trying (I Think Sometime I Used To Walk Around Eyes Closed Asleep)

The Next phase Was Him Waking Up Around 3.30am N shouting At The Top Of His Voice...dadiiiiii.... Off I Go N The Guy Says..nifunike..

I Then Noticed our Jogoo wud wika Just Before He Called Out...We Ate Him.

Thayu (Peace) Nayo After The Jogoo Was No More!

Moral Of The Story...no Noise When Baby Starts To Get The Hung Of It

...ili iwe funzo kwa jogoo wengine..

Our kids never sleep in our bed at all. Right from birth, they sleep in their own cot. When they wake up in the middle of the night, I get up [wife is usually too fatigued, especially in first few months after birth], pick the kid and hand over to wife for breastfeeding...or simply rock back to sleep.

Time to move out of our room comes when the kid settles into an all-night sleep routine. We've never had a problem with that. We are now on number 3 and he will be heading out of out bedroom in a few months time. I don't expect any problems.

@Rahatupu,

Children best respond to routine and the earlier you have this in place the better for you.My deelets have always slept with the same routine of
bath - milk - stories - bed routine and i may be lucky as this has worked, they both moved to their rooms at 9 months sleeping in their own cots.

However your case is fairly common and what works varies from child to child. However back to the routine what a child needs is consistency, whenever he cries at your door wake up no speaking, no eye contact and return him to his bed, you might do this for a few hours in the first night and its very physically exhausting (heck no-one says this journey will be easy)but a helluva lot more worthwhile,soon he will get the message and by day 3 this will be a thing of the past. Remember the key is consistency children dont cope well with disruptions. All the best.