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Am just not feeling it...
chepkel
#31 Posted : Wednesday, April 17, 2013 9:52:14 AM
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Mganga Kutoka Tanga. Yeye hutibu hata Kutorokwa na Bibi
poundfoolish
#32 Posted : Wednesday, April 17, 2013 12:35:09 PM
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maka wrote:
poundfoolish wrote:
McReggae wrote:
@maka, ama it has something to do with the man with the stud???


was my initial thought as well...
Maka are you Melancholic?

interesting... Melancholics are very emotional. They
are moved deeply by beauty, and by
distress. They are very easily hurt,
because of their perfectionistic
tendencies.
Often theirmoods are like delicate
glass sculptures; built up slowly,
deliberately, and carefully, but easily
broken, and hard to repair once
shattered.
They respond to things that they
dislike with misery and with tears
rather than with rage.
They are very slow to 'snap', but will
hold onto emotions for a very long
time. They hold grudges, because
people who have failed to meet their
standards, who have hurt them, will
not just suddenly meet those
standards without changing
drastically.
They can become very 'moody', and
they can be difficult to interact with
because they are so easily hurt.
They are not aggressive, and wish to
flee from things that cause them
distress.
If they want to get back at another
person, they are more likely to make
them feel guilty than to insult them
bluntly.
They are 'thin-skinned'.


Have we diagnosed the issue?
We can then proceed to try some solutions
AlphDoti
#33 Posted : Wednesday, April 17, 2013 12:49:40 PM
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Posts: 6,275
Location: Kenya
@Maka believe me, it does not matter what you do, as long as you do not have peace of mind, no happiness on earth.

You need to submit to your creator and you realize all these vanities mean nothing, they are just enablers in our life (money, car, land, etc)

When you're lastly rested on that hole, then you know what this means.

NOTE: Go back home, read, stop having pork, stop having alcohol, believe in one God, don't do idol worship, believe in the messengers of God (all of them, find out), and that will take that bad feeling (devil) out of you.
Wakanyugi
#34 Posted : Wednesday, April 17, 2013 1:02:05 PM
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Joined: 7/3/2007
Posts: 1,635
maka wrote:
Life to me has just become blunt and boring,nothing seems to excite me,am just in that phase where all seems like a lull ,a never ending cycle that is hell bent to destroy me there is nothing as bad as people telling you,you have potential but you arent using it and deep down you know its all true...really need to rediscover myself,need to find a way to get that will power to do the things I have dreamt of...help anyone?



Seems like someone is having a mid life crisis.

Don't worry, it will pass.

Have you tried a new girlfriend?

Get one from the Artcafe crowd and I assure you, from the economic hit that you will get, your existential angst will pale into insignificance.
"The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth." (Niels Bohr)
King G
#35 Posted : Wednesday, April 17, 2013 1:08:49 PM
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Posts: 3,855
Location: Othumo
Pole bro. wish you the best of feeling and doing better in life. we are in this together.

I always feel low and cheated in life until i realise i blessed considering what others go through. I am no shrink but always think positive and manage to discard negatives slowly. you need the will, nobody will do it for you.

CHEERS!
Thieves
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