ok jamaas dogging siwezi kuwatetea. kila mtu abebe msalaba wake. lakini blanket condemnation is bad and i think is what is causing many marital problems nowadays. you get into a relationship and the woman comes with the impression that you are cheating from day one because that is what she has been told by her galfriends all men do. many times men are pissed because the guy is accused of dogging when he is innocent and so goes ahead to actually dog.

Can anything work? Has any government in the world that ever declared prostitution illegal succeded in eliminating it 100%?

@Starr has a point - let ladies get into marriages commited. Let ladies not assume that only denying ur man sex makes him seek elsewhere. Guys r to be found in pubs till late for many reasons,sex being the least/last. Mainly,one just wants to avoid the lambasting,criticism,being compared with so and so,demand for more than one has,and generally just being nagged - siku hizi wanapigwa pia. The bible says it is better to live in a house with a leaking roof than living with one such lady - if this nagging can stop,and a guy walks into the house and gets much deserved rest after a stressful day,smiles at the wife and she smile back,and they just generally get along - guarantteed,your guy will come come home every day and most likely (not 100%) not end up in another woman's bed.

The reason for posting the first question is that - not all men are cheating or will cheat,so let it not be generally presumed so. Some guys r nice pple who r not enslaved by their sexuality. Men/women who can control their sexuality usually will be truly free.


Bidii yangu

@ Mainat

I highly doubt whether polygamy would stop men from cheating.

If a man was to have a second wife of his choice ( coz the first one is usually not) and she comes with all the goodies ( legz,butt,thighs,cleaveage and maybe a brain) would the man stop from admiring other women and perhaps not lay one ?

I think not !




The Hedonist

Those who had a chance to live with their grandmothers were taught how to keep a man from straying. Simple,timeless tactics.....give him food...ya tumbo na chini ya tumbo....give him peace.....and massage ego yake kiasi.... and he'll sing loads of praises to the wife.....and give all he can...

..wise as a serpent,humble as a dove

@lyanne,
Be his friend before being his lover. That way you know 'everything' and you choose whether you can live with the puppy or not


The thicker the thigh the sweeter the pie.