Si atahamia mlolongo na amezoea kukaa kileleshwa. mlolongo na kileleshwa/lavington sio sawa..... ala! In any case, majority of the guys would rather the woman moves into the guys house and not the vice versa.... Personally, i see that as the order of the day (typical african), unless aseme nilimuoa ahamie kwangu(what's the smiley for "wink")

My wife says that its not that there are no men. The men are there. The ladies just want ready made men. They want the well dressed, sharp-suited man, driving a nice car, living in a good neighbourhood, nice job.. e.t.c. They define these as standards to be met before they marry them.

For you to get a good man, you must be ready to sharpen him to be the man you want to marry, most ladies are not ready to do this. They want security, they dont see a guy with potential to provide that security in the next few months/years.

Getting a man requires fundamental analysis, not speculation. Moreso.. if you are going to be a shareholder/manager/employee/director of that man.

Disclaimer: I am talking about a man to marry. And not all ladies are like that, there are a few exceptions.

I am a good man. My wife found me.

Getting a woman too requires fundamental analysis, right?