@newmember
Heart aches last for as long let them to and cut as deep as you let them go. Him saying he will arrange for a wedding in six months time could be an excuse for you terminate the pregnancy. He may have made a calculated bluff cause i presume you are around a couple of months after conception so by quating six months time you will be heavily pregnant and having a wedding is unlikely or you wont like the idea while in that state cause alot would be happening in your body ranging from hormonal changes etc. Here in UK i've seen Couples getting ahead and get married when one of the spouse is heavily pregnant cause they want their not to be outside the wedlock but in your case i dont see that happening. If he really does want the idea of marriage to go ahead then he should be able to do it a few months after birth. That is if he really does fancy you that much. You dont have to do anything,and he should not only give you words let him show with actions,take your stand let him know the idea of a wedding in six months time aint gonnah happen but a few month after birth could do. Then leave him to it,but i'll warn you,do this if only you wanna give him that second chance. But if you dont wanna give him that chance just ignore him,start licking your wounds and a move on girl. You deserve better. Relationships are all about treating each other better,somethings are easier said than done. Telling you to just forget him like that,it aint gonnah happen and the babie will always remind you of him but if you just accept your fate fully and take that option of moving on despite him,then with time you will heal. Time is a master healer. The sooner you let go,and forgive him what he's done although forgiving doesnt neccesarily forgeting. In your case you wont forget cause you will be having his baby. But by forgiving him and completely let go of the anger and bitterness you do harbour inside you,you'll heal with time but failure to this wil only make him control your feelings like he's doing right now. Cause you are bitter and angry with him,theres no way you can be happy and be bitter and angry at the same time. So you have to let go of one if you are to be happy after all. At the end of the day the ultimate decission is yours girl,but i dont think you want to be miserable for the rest of your life.
Jay