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Perfect age for marriage
Pretty
#21 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 11:50:00 AM
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@Sasha • Now you sound like my aunt who lives in Canada @Impunity • Since August,I have been officially let to do what real adults do. Am under 25 and over 16. • I watched Brooke Shields movie where she moves in to live with a man her dad’s age although she is 13. • When I was 13,I used to have daydreams over adult men. Ever watched Lolita? Stay young,keep your wheels in motion.
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ji
#22 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 11:51:00 AM
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Hakuna kitu kama 'perfect' age,you are over 18 and feel like you parents have done their job of bringing u up,and someone has convinced you to cross over,then you are good to go. About the brain or lack of it....weeeell,it takes an intelligent woman to make a family. 'I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done.'
akowally
#23 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 11:56:00 AM
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@ Pretty At thirteen all kinds of people have such things. It is called adolescence. What I am wondering is if you have a good man in the picture. All you have mentioned is some stuff that shows about your parents and your views on marriage. Tell us about the man. @ Wendz I like your posts. 'The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes.” William James
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RO
#24 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 11:58:00 AM
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@pablo 'If you as a woman is intelligent you should use that to make your man feel as if the decisions are his.' Isn't that a tad manipulative or at worst 'fake humility'?? Disguised Opportunity?
skodhe
#25 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:06:00 PM
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Wendz - hiyo post yako ni safi sana. i totally agree with you. My sister is 25 but she is not intelligent enough. Sleeping like a littel baby
Djinn
#26 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:07:00 PM
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Joined: 11/13/2008
Posts: 1,565
@pretty - I can only comment on age in relation to having children in marriage - better marry and have kids young (19-24) then the generation gap with kids is not that big and you can relate to them. e.g. someone's mother had them when she was 39 years old and by the time someone was in puberty (12 years),said mother was too old (51) to properly cope with the hormone stuff. The problem with equality is that we desire that it be with those that have more than us rather that those that have less
Pablo
#27 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:11:00 PM
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@ Sasha,RO & all other feminists As pretty says about her aunty in Canada,ask a wise woman if she is happily married,then ask her what has made it work. Next go to your intelligent woman ans ask her if she is happily married,and ask her why. And she'll tell you something like ' we are supposed to be equal,i wash dishes today he washes them tomorow' The wise woman wll have everything she wants while your intelligent woman will just be competing and banging heads with her man. Be wise youll be happy. Competing will give you nothing but grief!! Want to be a millionaire.... plant a million cabbages and sell them at a bob...
RO
#28 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:27:00 PM
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@pablo, Intelligence,wisdom and earning power are not mutually exclusive and often come in one package. Feminist? LOL - throwing labels around does not help your argument in any way! Disguised Opportunity?
skodhe
#29 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:32:00 PM
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IT IS ONLY LOVE THAT MATTERS. NOT AGE Sleeping like a littel baby
Pablo
#30 Posted : Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:56:00 PM
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Location: Nairobi
@ RO,I take back the name calling. Want to be a millionaire.... plant a million cabbages and sell them at a bob...
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