STRESS..MS GLAMOUR WEDDING
EXPERIENCE
Lady Glamour(not real name) even at childhood had always nursed an ambition to do a big wedding. In addition she has witnessed many weddings and had been in the bridal train of some. After graduating she the job she had was not so fantastic but had a fiancee John a middle level bank worker ready to marry her. Glamour is from a humble background, daughter of retired police inspector.
Her wedding was close by and she planned big. Her wedding cake was imported, courtesy of her Aunt in UK. She cancelled the moderate reception venue arranged by John to a more cosy and expensive one at thrice the cost.
Their set aside money to get a better accommodation was used up at her own instance. The wedding was really a RALLY with numerous invitees and a lot to eat and drink.
In between because of money pressure, funds set aside for honey moon was sunk into the wedding.
The D day had cone and gone and Glamour and John were neck deep in debt. Some of the bills for wedding they could not pay as Glamour hinged her hope on cash donations from friends and relations that did not come as expected.
Glamour and hubby were dodging phone calls because of threats from creditors.
This resulted in nervous breakdown and serious sickness. Glamour collapsed due to thinking and was admitted in hospital. Friends including creditors were the ones that paid initial deposit in the hospital.
For Glamour, big hopes dashed and stress set in.
Again an avoidable Stress and health complications
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