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MaichBlack
#21 Posted : Wednesday, May 06, 2015 8:58:03 PM
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And you wonder why this guy has made Ghana his home. When he is going "home" he goes to Ghana!!

Such relatives can drive you mad!

And there is a shelf life to a footballer. He has to prepare for his future and that of his family (wife and kids - not lazy brothers and sisters!!!). Otherwise he will just end up being another poor former athlete.
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Boris Boyka
#22 Posted : Wednesday, May 06, 2015 9:20:38 PM
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I had ignored this story but after reading here, This is an AFRICAN CURSE PERIOD!!!! Many Africans families would normally rely fully on one of their children who has succeeded. Demand all sorts of things and stipend. You are required to provide from Fees,upkeep and leisure. Sad that they are never greatfull..Always deny any help. You give them a foundation as like education they perform dismally or are indiscipline and discontinued. Such ppl will always go public to discredit their breadwinner whenever he/she demands accountability. Open a business for them and they squander. Shocking is that even the parents are involved being extravagant and curse yielding...Am talking from experience though not as that of Adebayor..with me are Kibaki...Ruto,google their stories that came up..I have 4 friends who have gone through same and we shared. I noticed another 3 ppl i know who have gone through such. It has come to a point that people run away from their relatives to avoid this back pulling practice. Most Africans we are schupid in our thoughts.
Everybody STEALS, a THIEF is one who's CAUGHT stealing something of LITTLE VALUE. !!!
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MaichBlack
#23 Posted : Wednesday, May 06, 2015 10:06:24 PM
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Boris Boyka wrote:
I had ignored this story but after reading here, This is an AFRICAN CURSE PERIOD!!!! Many Africans families would normally rely fully on one of their children who has succeeded. Demand all sorts of things and stipend. You are required to provide from Fees,upkeep and leisure. Sad that they are never greatfull..Always deny any help. You give them a foundation as like education they perform dismally or are indiscipline and discontinued. Such ppl will always go public to discredit their breadwinner whenever he/she demands accountability. Open a business for them and they squander. Shocking is that even the parents are involved being extravagant and curse yielding...Am talking from experience though not as that of Adebayor..with me are Kibaki...Ruto,google their stories that came up..I have 4 friends who have gone through same and we shared. I noticed another 3 ppl i know who have gone through such. It has come to a point that people run away from their relatives to avoid this back pulling practice. Most Africans we are schupid in our thoughts.


Kwanza these ones of akina Adebayor must be high on synthetic drugs + wet weed + adulterated petrol!!!

Ati they want a monthly salary in addition to a house each!!! Who even comes up with such a brain dead idea!! I pay you monthly for being my relative? And you are healthy and have a brain!? You are given capital and allowed to use the Adebayor name and images in Togo and you cannot make it work?
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Boris Boyka
#24 Posted : Wednesday, May 06, 2015 10:15:22 PM
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MaichBlack wrote:
Boris Boyka wrote:
I had ignored this story but after reading here, This is an AFRICAN CURSE PERIOD!!!! Many Africans families would normally rely fully on one of their children who has succeeded. Demand all sorts of things and stipend. You are required to provide from Fees,upkeep and leisure. Sad that they are never greatfull..Always deny any help. You give them a foundation as like education they perform dismally or are indiscipline and discontinued. Such ppl will always go public to discredit their breadwinner whenever he/she demands accountability. Open a business for them and they squander. Shocking is that even the parents are involved being extravagant and curse yielding...Am talking from experience though not as that of Adebayor..with me are Kibaki...Ruto,google their stories that came up..I have 4 friends who have gone through same and we shared. I noticed another 3 ppl i know who have gone through such. It has come to a point that people run away from their relatives to avoid this back pulling practice. Most Africans we are schupid in our thoughts.


Kwanza these ones of akina Adebayor must be high on synthetic drugs + wet weed + adulterated petrol!!!

Ati they want a monthly salary in addition to a house each!!! Who even comes up with such a brain dead idea!! I pay you monthly for being my relative? And you are healthy and have a brain!? You are given capital and allowed to use the Adebayor name and images in Togo and you cannot make it work?

Laughing out loudly That weed must have been planted on Mobutus grave! And the petrol lead poisoned thus brain damage.
Everybody STEALS, a THIEF is one who's CAUGHT stealing something of LITTLE VALUE. !!!
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MaichBlack
#25 Posted : Wednesday, May 06, 2015 10:20:15 PM
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I agree with you @Boris. This is [mostly] an African curse. The minute you look at your kids as a retirement plan or your relatives as a mobile ATM then from there things can only go south!

The sense of entitlement sometimes is baffling!!! You are my cousin/uncle/sister/brother to the uncle of my aunts bla bla bla and you are doing well. Why aren't you paying school fees for my kids??? Why are you surprised when my kid "passes" and I show up at your house with a list of all the requirements from fees to uniform to books to shopping?? And how dare you ask me how much of that money I can raise? Aren't you the big shot. You still want me to contribute my kidogo money to this??

These stories are all over. A friend was explaining to me today how a relative has cost him so much on investments/businesses he runs down and just walks away without looking back! The fellow then shows up after sometime as if nothing ever happened expecting more assistance! Being an African, I have also had an experience with this.
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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harrydre
#26 Posted : Thursday, May 07, 2015 2:50:55 AM
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and the love for free things and handouts. lots of crap!
i.am.back!!!!
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Lolest!
#27 Posted : Thursday, May 07, 2015 3:35:42 PM
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The Adebayor case reminds me of how we treat Africans living in the west.

I pity them when they come after 3 years and the grown ups hugging them go on to shamelessly ask(like kids), 'Uliniletea nini kutoka Amerika?'

Nkt! I imagine how kiash spends time washing old people calling him nigger and then he comes face to face with such fellows. What do they give Kiash in return? Nothing.
Laughing out loudly smile Applause d'oh! Sad Drool Liar Shame on you Pray
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kaka2za
#28 Posted : Thursday, May 07, 2015 3:45:43 PM
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Reminds me of the sad story of Marc-Vivien Foé. He was taking care of the entire clan and his family was in dire straits when he collapsed and died in 2003.
Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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MaichBlack
#29 Posted : Thursday, May 07, 2015 5:40:32 PM
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Lolest! wrote:
The Adebayor case reminds me of how we treat Africans living in the west.

I pity them when they come after 3 years and the grown ups hugging them go on to shamelessly ask(like kids), 'Uliniletea nini kutoka Amerika?'

Nkt! I imagine how kiash spends time washing old people calling him nigger and then he comes face to face with such fellows. What do they give Kiash in return? Nothing.


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

I pity Kiash too!!! All those elderly men and women he has to wash just to survive. He uses most of his money to pay bills. He saves for five years and pays his ticket home 2 years in advance to get the cheapest rate and when he lands here with his fake twang, his relatives (who party every weekend - while he is being abused by elderly women) are all over him! Everyone wants a share of the dollars. They organize several parties in his honour but which he somehow ends up footing the bills for! He pays school fees for relatives' kids he has never met. Some second cousin insists he leaves them the only leather jacket he owns and is not even fully paid for! By the time he is leaving, he has maxed out all his credit cards and they still insist he leaves them all the KShs. he has left! "Pesa ya Kenya unapeleka America y nini??"
Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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McReggae
#30 Posted : Thursday, May 07, 2015 5:54:10 PM
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Yaani only Adebayor is a saint in that family? mmmmmhh!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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