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quicksand wrote:
Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so.
And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end.
I am not talking about opportunists here. I am talking about a genuine person who falls in love with another when either of them is in a horrible and unhappy relationship P.S. I meant to write "Snatch than share" in my earlier post...I've made the correction
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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chepkel wrote:quicksand wrote:
Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so.
And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end.
I am not talking about opportunists here. I am talking about a genuine person who falls in love with another when either of them is in a horrible and unhappy relationship P.S. I meant to write "Snatch than share" in my earlier post...I've made the correction Semantics dear. You wait until the other person has made a clean break from their current partner before you put your feelings out in the open. This is very difficult, I know, but not impossible. If you fall in love and tell a dude who is still with his wife, that is temptation, you have helped him across the Rubicon -in other words snatching; Otherwise he might have decided to stay and endure his wife and the unhappiness had you not provided an alternative.
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quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:quicksand wrote:
Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so.
And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end.
I am not talking about opportunists here. I am talking about a genuine person who falls in love with another when either of them is in a horrible and unhappy relationship P.S. I meant to write "Snatch than share" in my earlier post...I've made the correction Semantics dear. You wait until the other person has made a clean break from their current partner before you put your feelings out in the open. This is very difficult, I know, but not impossible. If you fall in love and tell a dude who is still with his wife, that is temptation, you have helped him across the Rubicon -in other words snatching; Otherwise he might have decided to stay and endure his wife and the unhappiness had you not provided an alternative. @Quicksand,I find you posts to be insulting since you are making an assumption that a man is not a rational person who can make prudent decisions and its only a lady who makes the decision to snatch or love a married man!! If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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Swenani wrote:quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:quicksand wrote:
Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so.
And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end.
I am not talking about opportunists here. I am talking about a genuine person who falls in love with another when either of them is in a horrible and unhappy relationship P.S. I meant to write "Snatch than share" in my earlier post...I've made the correction Semantics dear. You wait until the other person has made a clean break from their current partner before you put your feelings out in the open. This is very difficult, I know, but not impossible. If you fall in love and tell a dude who is still with his wife, that is temptation, you have helped him across the Rubicon -in other words snatching; Otherwise he might have decided to stay and endure his wife and the unhappiness had you not provided an alternative. @Quicksand,I find you posts to be insulting since you are making an assumption that man is not a rational person who can make prudent decisions and its only a lady who makes the decision to snatch or love a married man!! Sorry to offend you, your highness, it was a simple ommission on my part. Of course men too are capable of the same follies, but I was addressing @chepkel, a woman and assumed, wrongly, that the flipside would be inferred (hence the use of the words person and partner, above). Can I be accepted back to your good graces now?
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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chepkel wrote:I would rather snatch than share.
Speaking of snatching....Is it really such a bad thing?? If a man/woman is in a terribly unhappy relationship and a someone else comes along to offer something good, Is is really wrong to move on in the quest for happiness??
I mean, we only live once...why suffer in a doomed relationship for years when you can move forth and be happy??? Problem is you will not know you are sharing, by the time you do her kids are the same age as yours and probably the guy has pulled a Kajwang on you. so you have been sharing for 19 years, what happens? As for the kind of snatching you are talking about, you are better of with a jungu, he will say 'Honey, I fell in love with someone else', straight face. Alafu unajipanga.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:I would rather snatch or share.
Speaking of snatching....Is it really such a bad thing?? If a man/woman is in a terribly unhappy relationship and a someone else comes along to offer something good, Is is really wrong to move on in the quest for happiness??
I mean, we only live once...why suffer in a doomed relationship for years when you can move forth and be happy??? Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so. And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end. You make it sound like the men are hanging somewhere like ripe apples/mangoes, someone just picks and runs, they have no head of their own, that has some brain matter?? And by the way, since we have become a very selfish society, your marriage is non of my business, your spouse is the one who walked you down the aisle or paid your dowry,sasa mimi inanihusu vipi, I am not supposed to look at his past, I just fall in love with him or his wallet and voila.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/9/2009 Posts: 2,003
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CLK wrote:quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:I would rather snatch or share.
Speaking of snatching....Is it really such a bad thing?? If a man/woman is in a terribly unhappy relationship and a someone else comes along to offer something good, Is is really wrong to move on in the quest for happiness??
I mean, we only live once...why suffer in a doomed relationship for years when you can move forth and be happy??? Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so. And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end. You make it sound like the men are hanging somewhere like ripe apples/mangoes, someone just picks and runs, they have no head of their own, that has some brain matter?? And by the way, since we have become a very selfish society, your marriage is non of my business, your spouse is the one who walked you down the aisle or paid your dowry,sasa mimi inanihusu vipi, I am not supposed to look at his past, I just fall in love with him or his wallet and voila. Kwisha maneno!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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CLK wrote:quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:I would rather snatch or share.
Speaking of snatching....Is it really such a bad thing?? If a man/woman is in a terribly unhappy relationship and a someone else comes along to offer something good, Is is really wrong to move on in the quest for happiness??
I mean, we only live once...why suffer in a doomed relationship for years when you can move forth and be happy??? Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so. And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end. You make it sound like the men are hanging somewhere like ripe apples/mangoes, someone just picks and runs, they have no head of their own, that has some brain matter?? And by the way, since we have become a very selfish society, your marriage is non of my business, your spouse is the one who walked you down the aisle or paid your dowry,sasa mimi inanihusu vipi, I am not supposed to look at his past, I just fall in love with him or his wallet and voila.  You are making my point for me here, though I get the idea your intention was to berate me  At no point did I say that men are brainless, with no choice or should be absolved from responsibility. Quite the contrary. There is a reason women make men 'chase' them for a while, to test that commitment and resilience. It is a societal habit that is dying as less and less resistance is offered or sometimes a plain old brazen grab is made. You go after someone else' is wife or husband if thats what you want. It is a free country and I am not the world moral police (neither do I know anyone in Kenya who is), but if you do, you are a snatcher, you might escape paying the price but most likely karma will catch up with you like somebody earlier said. You snatch today, yours is snatched tomorrow. Maybe. Peace out.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/6/2010 Posts: 741 Location: Nairobi
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I like what @Quicksand has said. Makes a lot of sense. This is how to gauge whether he or she is really in-love with you. So, If you leave him/her alone and, later on, they still choose to leave their partner, then that is Karma averted, right?? Ama?? All in all, I wish people (especially Men) could stop geting married for all the wrong reasons only to suffer baadaye 
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quicksand wrote:CLK wrote:quicksand wrote:chepkel wrote:I would rather snatch or share.
Speaking of snatching....Is it really such a bad thing?? If a man/woman is in a terribly unhappy relationship and a someone else comes along to offer something good, Is is really wrong to move on in the quest for happiness??
I mean, we only live once...why suffer in a doomed relationship for years when you can move forth and be happy??? Snatchers are usually opportunists who wait until another woman has put in work, endured and suffered, until she has polished her man into a refined specimen, then they pounce. They do not want guys who are down in the dumps, hustling. That is why it must hurt so. And we men are rather heartless, so we'll move on without missing a beat the moment another hot mama presents herself. Most men I know have a bro code, and they will not nyemelea other men's wives (though the watchie has no qualms),...women should follow suit. Dont take attached men, dont tempt men so much and may be they must just stick around through the slog to the very end. You make it sound like the men are hanging somewhere like ripe apples/mangoes, someone just picks and runs, they have no head of their own, that has some brain matter?? And by the way, since we have become a very selfish society, your marriage is non of my business, your spouse is the one who walked you down the aisle or paid your dowry,sasa mimi inanihusu vipi, I am not supposed to look at his past, I just fall in love with him or his wallet and voila. You are making my point for me here, though I get the idea your intention was to berate me At no point did I say that men are brainless, with no choice or should be absolved from responsibility. Quite the contrary. There is a reason women make men 'chase' them for a while, to test that commitment and resilience. It is a societal habit that is dying as less and less resistance is offered or sometimes a plain old brazen grab is made. You go after someone else' is wife or husband if thats what you want. It is a free country and I am not the world moral police (neither do I know anyone in Kenya who is), but if you do, you are a snatcher, you might escape paying the price but most likely karma will catch up with you like somebody earlier said. You snatch today, yours is snatched tomorrow. Maybe. Peace out. This reminds me of the tribulations of ndugu "Louis the pest"
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