It is Gods fault. He made that moment so sweet. If only he had made it painful so that people have to think hard about doing it. Or if he had put a sharp object inside the punani that a pierces a mans penis if pregnancy is to result. The injury to the penis takes 9 months to heal and in that time he cannot put it in any other punani.

Who cares about your beefs? these versus those will burn Kenya, while we watch.

AlphDoti,

What will happen?

@muriel what will happen about what? About women taking up more men? Lack of ownership will increase, who will be the father of the child? Many cases of child-neglect, hence child-mailing will happen.

Anyway this are signs of social dis-function. Citizens for some reason, they are not appreciating the challenges in life.

You see children don't come by themselves, they are part of unit called family. So dis-function inside of a family, through various issues. Maybe isolation, or lifestyle ... You see children are the by-products of that. It's like in a house where people smoke cigarette, even those who don't smoke get second-hand smoke.

To be fair most people are wonderful people, raising good families, but people are not speaking about what is good. They are also not talking about what is bad. They see bad/evil and they just don't talk about.

I'm not blaming, but I'm saying if people were fair and find solutions and apply them. And concerning this social problem of children outside marriage, I think young people bear this responsibility. The others who bear this responsibility are the adults, the parents. Currently many adults are in denial, blaming the children, and children at some point realize they are not all to blame, then they turn and blame the parents. SO we get parents and children blaming each other. Then we get confrontations and polarization. And guess who comes in between? The media and businessmen who take advantage of this social dis-function.

So who suffer the most in this kid of mess? The children. Parents already have their culture & experience & maturity to fall back on.

The children don't understand the cultural dynamics. They don't appreciate it because they don't have that level of maturity. What they understand is what the society shows them, what the media tells them and through experiments. So without the truth, many makes wrong choices.

So that wrong choice, impacts on the rest of the life, and the next generation... until you see homeless children, street children, unmarried women of all types.

So for me, if parents were honest, having realistic discussions, talk moral, talk ethics, talk straight.

But not those Maina Kageni stuff!!!

For example in legal problem, if you lie to your lawyer, then what will happen is the attorney will arrive at wrong decision! Also, if you're not honest with your doctor, the medicine he is going to give you is not going to help you, instead it might harm you.

If people get into discussions to arrive at real problems, then they can get to real solutions...

The biggest problem is the mentality of the people!

You are still in your extended honeymoon so you dont understand what one-night stands entails; on that I forgive you and call the man irresponsible.