@Lolest, wazuan's might be in a better position to assist if you tell them the following;
1. Your gender,
2. Sexual orientation (including Binyavangaism)
3. Age bracket (18-20, 21-25, 26-30, 31-35 etc)
4. Marital status (including 'its complicated')
5. Profession and social status (including 'Hustler')
6. Past engagements with her/them (including 'fished her')
7. Any other information that may be deemed useful, regardless how embarrassing.
Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.” ― Rashi