mpobiz wrote:McReggae wrote:mpobiz wrote:Mukiri wrote:If you get a 'No' on the heavenly beaches of Lamu, yenyewe she doesn't love you.
Wewe Kweli ni nugu. When she says yes after proposing to her in your small bedsiter with your meko at the corner that is real love. you propose especially 6am as you are leaving home for work so that reality hits her early enough on what's she's getting her self into.
Lamu is where you go to celebrate your 3rd year of marriage.
Iko nene???
pole sana mukiri. Nikuhiokirwo..
Come srore boss, If you address your advisers like that, pressure or not, it will to be your own detriment. I have nothing to lose however you decide to propose.
Now my fellow Wazuan, you'll realize later on, most probably when you mess up(caught eyeing or God-forbid chatting up/squeezing fich) that marriage is point based system. Pre-marriage its all rosy, you can get away with almost anything(mark you records are kept), but when the routine checks in, reality checks in.
Its my assumption that as a Wazuan, you have a coin or two. Whether or not you are a miser, is entirely another thing. There are things that happen once in life. Popping the question is one of them.
My advice, spend a little in making her feel special and wanted, and you can get away with a budget wedding.... in any case Lamu is a beautiful place, where you yourself will enjoy, whether or not she accepts your proposal. Nugu