Impunity wrote:Shak wrote:Even those head massages at the barber look suspect to me. Some look too sensual
One asked me if I needed full body massage as she "could see my body needed rejuvenation"
I asked where will that happen? On the barber chair ama wapi? I was shown a kasmall room with an instant shower.
I said No-Thenk-You and left.
Massage is one part of therapy in natural healing. The other parts are looking at your mind and spirituality and working on your physical fitness.
When looking at your mind, you confront all these demons in your head that mostly present yourself as 'sexual ideas'. Such sessions can be tough, especially with a repressive socialization. But they are doable.
Touch will always have an 'erotic' element. That's how your body and mind can be communicated to. That's what happens to children. Sucking the mother's breasts, being cuddled . . . having these prevents 'psychological dwarfism'. This takes us to Freud's thoughts on hysteria and stuff like that.
Which makes me come to this; couples should join a gym providing extensive exercise regimes, psychoanalysis and 'ntuology', and massage and natural healing techniques.