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WILL YOU MARRY ME?
Ngong
#21 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 11:43:15 AM
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Property acquired at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at dissolution of the marriage will be shared on a 50/50 basis if the Bill is passed into law.

Haya no more hiring killer gangs,just divorce and you get ua 50% cut plus child support & freedom to ...
jaggernaut
#22 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 11:47:11 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
Ladies can get nasty! I almost testified in court for a friend whose girlfriend, of a couple of years, accused him of rape after a rescinded marriage offer.


Sometimes guys can be very unfair to the ladies. You use her for 5yrs while convincing her that the relationship is long term (while deep inside you know it's not), then one day you say its over after wasting her time, her 'prime years'for marriage.
rest.easy
#23 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:14:12 PM
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jaggernaut wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
Ladies can get nasty! I almost testified in court for a friend whose girlfriend, of a couple of years, accused him of rape after a rescinded marriage offer.


Sometimes guys can be very unfair to the ladies. You use her for 5yrs while convincing her that the relationship is long term (while deep inside you know it's not), then one day you say its over after wasting her time, her 'prime years'for marriage.


Shame on you who is using who?

this is why people should not land before marriage.

women are the gate keepers of sex
men are the gate keepers of commitment

both genders should know how to play their cards right for the long term
Mukiri
#24 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:24:33 PM
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jaggernaut wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
Ladies can get nasty! I almost testified in court for a friend whose girlfriend, of a couple of years, accused him of rape after a rescinded marriage offer.


Sometimes guys can be very unfair to the ladies. You use her for 5yrs while convincing her that the relationship is long term (while deep inside you know it's not), then one day you say its over after wasting her time, her 'prime years'for marriage.

I agree. Thats cruel especially where children are involved.. But why not learn from the experience, dust off and continue with life? Is this an example where you'd justify payback? Do you @jaggernaut 'understand' when killers are hired?

Proverbs 19:21
Intelligentsia
#25 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:31:41 PM
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jaggernaut
Sometimes guys can be very unfair to the ladies. [color=red wrote:
You use her for 5yrs [/color]while convincing her that the relationship is long term (while deep inside you know it's not), then one day you say its over after wasting her time, her 'prime years'for marriage.


But she also wasted YOUR 5yrs!
If it is landing, both of u had fun - otherwise mngemalizana in less than 6 months, no?
And in come-we-try, si both of you genuinely initially believe you can get along thats why you tried? So if along the line both or either of you realize it aint working and opt to end it, why should the jamaa be the one to suffer?

kysse
#26 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:35:51 PM
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No,thanks.
Marriage is bondage and a perfect gateway to immorality cz men just can't stick to one woman.

link-www.dontfullybelivethis.com
jguru
#27 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:44:15 PM
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"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned."

Simple as.

Let me ask the ladies, why do you take a man's phone, get another girl's number from his phonebook or call logs and call her? Do you like abusing and arguing with a total stranger over the phone?

And what is it with ladies who say that if she cannot have you, no other woman will?
Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
Meduza
#28 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:51:12 PM
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jguru wrote:
"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned."

Simple as.

Let me ask the ladies, why do you take a man's phone, get another girl's number from his phonebook or call logs and call her? Do you like abusing and arguing with a total stranger over the phone?

And what is it with ladies who say that if she cannot have you, no other woman will?


i think that trait of ladies who check the phones start from the moment you start dating...you should never allow someone check you phone, I don't expect the dude to do the same. I also think that part of 'if i cannot have you...bla bla..' happens after a break up. give her time she will get over you and over everything else.
You cant win, unless you first begin....
jguru
#29 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:54:33 PM
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jaggernaut wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
Ladies can get nasty! I almost testified in court for a friend whose girlfriend, of a couple of years, accused him of rape after a rescinded marriage offer.


Sometimes guys can be very unfair to the ladies. You use her for 5yrs while convincing her that the relationship is long term (while deep inside you know it's not), then one day you say its over after wasting her time, her 'prime years'for marriage.


Si sabuni. Haiishi.

smile
Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
AlphDoti
#30 Posted : Tuesday, July 16, 2013 12:57:40 PM
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kysse wrote:
No,thanks.
Marriage is bondage and a perfect gateway to immorality cz men just can't stick to one woman.

link-www.dontfullybelivethis.com

@kysse now that's where you go wrong, look at the options before you rush into conclusions.

Men are diffrent:
- some don't feel a woman
- some are okay with one woman and won't be adulteous
- some are not satisfied with one woman. Here is where you marry another one.

Who said you cannot marry another one if you can afford?

Men of nawadays are cowards!!! Shame on you Brick wall
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