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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2012 Posts: 3,855 Location: Othumo
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rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come.  Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. Thieves
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/26/2012 Posts: 1,182
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kysse wrote:mnjoro wrote:Idleness too siku hizi hakuna mashamba ya kulima like we used to do when growing up.Domestic work, parents wanaachia house-helps even while the children are teenagers.Its really annoying queing in a butchery cause each customer lazima akatiwe meat ata sukuma jameni. Meat is fine,but some have taken things a bit too far. A grown up lady cannot even cut her cabbage/sukuma/onion not cz she doesn't have the time,she just hates the work which will mess up her pedicure. The only thing she does is oil the pan. I pity sons. Pedicure is to toe nails, manicure is to finger nails. Mambo ya wanawake magumu haya.
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/7/2011 Posts: 410
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King G wrote:rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come. Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. King G, from which Kingdom do u hail from?
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/19/2012 Posts: 552
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King G wrote:rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come. Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. So which generation are we complaining about, those with rights or those who were chapwad?? Ebu enda na hizo rights zako. Mine even keeps her cane. When it necessitates, she goes gets it na anachapwa kweli kweli. Kwani ni serkal italia mtoto akiaribika ama ni mimi??? Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.... Leo Buscaglia
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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rryyzz wrote:King G wrote:rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come. Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. So which generation are we complaining about, those with rights or those who were chapwad?? Ebu enda na hizo rights zako. Mine even keeps her cane. When it necessitates, she goes gets it na anachapwa kweli kweli. Kwani ni serkal italia mtoto akiaribika ama ni mimi???  A child keeping its own cain!? Poor kid. However, you should question its intelligence, or lack of, if (s)he hasn't tried to make it 'softer'
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 6/19/2013 Posts: 18
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During our parent's generation, a child was for the whole community thus were disciplined if found on the wrong whenever...wherever. Today you can't warn a friend's kid..leave alone that.. your own kid. The will start screaming that they have their own rights and should not be told a thing. Another thing...western lifestyle had also degraded our African morals..music, movies name them..starting with the parents themselves who display bad habits in front of their own kids. I wonder how we will bring up our own generation of children No matter how great the talents or efforts, some things just take time. You can't produce a baby in 1 day by making 9 women pregnant- Warren Buffet
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2012 Posts: 3,855 Location: Othumo
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Mukiri wrote:rryyzz wrote:King G wrote:rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come. Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. So which generation are we complaining about, those with rights or those who were chapwad?? Ebu enda na hizo rights zako. Mine even keeps her cane. When it necessitates, she goes gets it na anachapwa kweli kweli. Kwani ni serkal italia mtoto akiaribika ama ni mimi??? A child keeping its own cain!? Poor kid. However, you should question its intelligence, or lack of, if (s)he hasn't tried to make it 'softer' Poor kid. will be traumatized and after secondary /college days, you wont manage them. mototo siku hizi ni kubonga na yeye na kubembeleza (mama, daddy, pole, its ok etc vitu kama hizo)! Thieves
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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King G wrote:Mukiri wrote:rryyzz wrote:King G wrote:rryyzz wrote:matata wrote:What happened to the beatings our parents gave us? nobody died of being whipped. siku hizi ukichapa mtoto ur not a good parent en the kid myt commit suicide cz of stress nkt!!! We need to get back to the old days where even a neighbour could discipline ur kid. Otherwise we may not have generations to come. Parents of today are so wrong as far as being role models is concerned; the way they dress, the way they talk,all housework being left to the househelp. How do you expect the children to turn out. Kitambo, we had chores to perform, respect for the elders and we knew the kiboko was not far off if we erred. you were being abused without your knowledge. things have changed and rights are in place. you need to claim payments from your parents for all the wrongs they did to you and your generation. So which generation are we complaining about, those with rights or those who were chapwad?? Ebu enda na hizo rights zako. Mine even keeps her cane. When it necessitates, she goes gets it na anachapwa kweli kweli. Kwani ni serkal italia mtoto akiaribika ama ni mimi??? A child keeping its own cain!? Poor kid. However, you should question its intelligence, or lack of, if (s)he hasn't tried to make it 'softer' Poor kid. will be traumatized and after secondary /college days, you wont manage them. mototo siku hizi ni kubonga na yeye na kubembeleza (mama, daddy, pole, its ok etc vitu kama hizo)! Aiiih du...tandika mtoto proper hii kubembeleza haisaidii ati daddy/mummy...hadi siku gani... possunt quia posse videntur
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,823 Location: Nairobi
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mimi nishaanza ku-invest in viboko... nimeona pembe zikimea kwa ka-junior kangu. All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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