The undertones I read are lack of respect, holds you in low regard, hates your friends and a power struggle where she wants to be in charge.Hitting you is gross and the lowest one can go.The relationship is near Makueni.

However all is not lost.Retrace your steps to find out where did things start going wrong and see if you can correct them.

Open and sincere communication will be key to your correction path.

The two of you only before you bring in third parties.

So take some time of and go somewhere to think.Ensure home iko chakula then invite her after a two weeks of absence for a candid discussion.Let her know you are away for sometime to think about your life.

Wondering where to go.Tafuta a hotel or furnished apartment and check in.Do not pollute the period with other thoughts (Read Mwendes) just you and your thoughts every evenning.

All the best na usikue na stress sana.Life is full of ups and downs and you have to be strong during the down time.

Print the feed-back herein and leave it on her desk.

Kijana, you need to MAN up…
Let me give you a story, when I was newly married I came home on a sato evening at 11:00PM and my first lady did not talk to me all day on the Sunday so jioni I went out and came back at 1:00AM and she did not talk to me on the Monday so again on Monday I went out and came back at 4:00AM (did not mind the barman thinking am crazy to stay that late in the local alone) On the Tuesday morning she got the message and I had set the ground rules. Nowadays all I need to do is inform her where I will be and what time am expected home – though I never stay out beyond 11PM and it’s on Fridays only!

A slap is a deal breaker - she hates you (There's a big diff btn not loving and hating). There is no marriage. You son will always be yours. He will come looking for you when he gets to college. A true test of love is setting someone free - this case your son. He will understand later in life.

For the bitch, you have given her too much power. No time for regrets. Please move on. I suspect you don't provide financially, so please walk out before we read of your demise in the papers. At 30 you are still way young.

Forget the counselors. Learn to solve your own sh**t. It will make you stronger.

HEALING

1. Interact with more and more ladies - love as mentioned above is way overrated (And mostly just skin deep).
2. Join a church. The company will keep you busy and is a perfect healing place.
3. Live your own life. Don't try to safe face for other people to see you a family man. Your happiness comes first.

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Brother, am sorry for what has happened to you. You need to be very decisive, and talk to her family members to talk to her, but if there is no change, remember that you are too young to get stressed. Most us have faced their own challenges in marriage, but we have never allowed these to rob us our lives. Also pray and ask for guidance and i wish you well.