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tycho
#21 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 10:58:46 PM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I will never visit the institution called marriage again, never. Full stop. Could i be right or its just a matter of time? i realy dont know.


Pole for your painful experience.

I doubt whether it is the institution that is faulty; my opinion is that it is the understanding you shared about marriage and how you built your individual personalities that was faulty.

Don't be too hard on yourself and take this opportunity to learn and become a better man.
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essyk
#22 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:02:58 PM
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@Pastor M.I am deaconess in training.
A discerner of spirits and a degree in madeemoni casting.U need deliverance.

@ Am I forgot to add.You asked Richdad 'kwani hukuzaliwa'
I wish to correct that please.Marriage is not a child bearing institution only.
It is not the reason God ordained it.
Many couples are fulfilled without kids.
Others KILL their own kids.That should tell you that even kids cannot be a source of peace.
They only come to add value.




"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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murchr
#23 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:08:13 PM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I will never visit the institution called marriage again, never. Full stop. Could i be right or its just a matter of time? i realy dont know.



Pole ndugu, theres nothing as scary as getting into an union with someone then you realize later that u cant stand her....I believe thats how alcoholics and cheaters are made.
"There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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Much Know
#24 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:13:44 PM
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Or you 'visited' a marriage?
Ras Kienyeji Man
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richdad
#25 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:14:41 PM
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pole tena..... I was once told that the world never waits for you to mourn. So try a get a plan...fast.
Keep it simple
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Mchanganuzi
#26 Posted : Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:18:37 PM
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I have been a man in my life and never gave up or bowed out of any challenge and that means I excelled academically, career wise, in business and in a way financially, but guys, I for the first time bow out and decide that it's better to live in peace and in one piece rather than find myself rotting somewhere in jail or six feet down just for a minute of anger. I find it very difficult to accept this as a man because it hurts my ego but I find it to be the only way out. Anything that reminds me of marriage just changes my pulse rate and I even have difficulty breathing. If this is what marriage can be, hata pope anaishi. But thank God am learning to take life day after another and finding peace within to forge ahead.
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essyk
#27 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 12:30:57 AM
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Sad I get emotional whenever I read such sad stories.

Please get a copy of this video/audio.

THE ISSUE OF SUFFERING AND PAIN -BY JOHN CARSON.

Quote:
YOU WON'T REALLY CARE UNTIL YOU'VE BEEN THERE.IT'S ONLY WHEN YOU'VE BEEN THERE THAT YOU CAN REALLY CARE IN THE FULLEST DEEPEST KIND OF WAY.

GOD ALLOWS YOU TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE THAT HE MIGHT COMFORT YOU, NOT TO MAKE YOU COMFORTABLE BUT TO MAKE YOU A COMFORTER.
HE ALLOWS US TO BE BITTEN SO WE WILL CARE WHEN WE ARE AROUND PEOPLE WHO HAVE BITTEN BY THE SAME KIND OF BEAST.THAT IS WHY HE ALLOWS US TO GO THROUGH HEARTBREAKS OF ALL KINDS.



Now there's a neighbour waking up the whole court because nobody is opening the gate and the loud bang on is gate is causing dogs to bark like crazy.
He's driven off in anger at lightening speed to God knows where.
When you are in level 3 of the stress ladder heading towards healing, somebody is just starting his level 1.
After you have healed and moved on,you can come back and encourage the beginners.

such is life.Pray .









"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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harrydre
#28 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 1:07:10 AM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I have been a man in my life and never gave up or bowed out of any challenge and that means I excelled academically, career wise, in business and in a way financially, but guys, I for the first time bow out and decide that it's better to live in peace and in one piece rather than find myself rotting somewhere in jail or six feet down just for a minute of anger. I find it very difficult to accept this as a man because it hurts my ego but I find it to be the only way out. Anything that reminds me of marriage just changes my pulse rate and I even have difficulty breathing. If this is what marriage can be, hata pope anaishi. But thank God am learning to take life day after another and finding peace within to forge ahead.


pole boss. what happened?
i.am.back!!!!
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danas10
#29 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 1:23:03 AM
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Ok...but why? Since you sound hurt, pole and let life be. Life is a time path and very few find their optimal. so keep it going.
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murchr
#30 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 1:39:23 AM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I have been a man in my life and never gave up or bowed out of any challenge and that means I excelled academically, career wise, in business and in a way financially, but guys, I for the first time bow out and decide that it's better to live in peace and in one piece rather than find myself rotting somewhere in jail or six feet down just for a minute of anger. I find it very difficult to accept this as a man because it hurts my ego but I find it to be the only way out. Anything that reminds me of marriage just changes my pulse rate and I even have difficulty breathing. If this is what marriage can be, hata pope anaishi. But thank God am learning to take life day after another and finding peace within to forge ahead.


Pole jamaa this must really hurt. If separation/walking away is for the best, then do it without thinking twice. Its always good to be safe than sorry.
"There are only two emotions in the market, hope & fear. The problem is you hope when you should fear & fear when you should hope: - Jesse Livermore
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