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bwenyenye
#21 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 1:48:58 PM
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@Mlevi,

I agree with you that kuna wamama na wababa wenye tabia mbaya sana. He/ She invites you for a date, the proceeds to order her fantasies. When the bill comes, she looks the other way! This habit is even picking up with men. Iko wanaume shenzi kabisa kwa club. Please style up. Drink within your means!

I remember one time, I am chilling in club then at around midnight a friend calls me and tells me to join them at another club. The minute I fika, I find her with like three other women and I could see they had had a nyce time. I was abit high so I asked for water. When I decided to leave, I asked the waiter for my bill and the waiter had the audacity to ask ' siulipe hata hiyo yao?'
Hiyo club niliwacha kwenda!nkt!
I Think Therefore I Am
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Wendz
#22 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 2:13:43 PM
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Magigi wrote:
@Mlevi
...Should not assume things...make things clear from the start...this is not the West and we dont assume.
...There are nice 'Eves'out there who will foot the bill again and again.
...Depends on who you are hanging out with... Kama ulienda kuokota takataka ya K-street usitulee...You got what you went for...
...Again the issue of how we have been socialised matters...Men have always paid bills in Kenya!!! Ati ukialikwa for a drink huko west unaenda ukijibebea changaa yako! Some of this BS from the west makes me want to chance a fart when I have diarrhoea!!!


You took it from my lips..... I was going to ask, who do you guys hang out with? For all my friends, both men and women, we fight almost all the time on who is going to pay. not because no one is offering, but because everyone has removed money to pay and it exceeds what is already in the bill.... some want to pay all of it but we wont allow it. and that's whether it is a lunch or a drink... if i invite you for lunch or a drink, i know i am picking the bill. And even then, someone still asks you "you sure you are ok with paying everything?"

Or am i lucky not to have met a shenzi type?

With this, i appreciate my friends even more!!!
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Inuendo
#23 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 2:40:07 PM
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Wendz wrote:
Magigi wrote:
@Mlevi
...Should not assume things...make things clear from the start...this is not the West and we dont assume.
...There are nice 'Eves'out there who will foot the bill again and again.
...Depends on who you are hanging out with... Kama ulienda kuokota takataka ya K-street usitulee...You got what you went for...
...Again the issue of how we have been socialised matters...Men have always paid bills in Kenya!!! Ati ukialikwa for a drink huko west unaenda ukijibebea changaa yako! Some of this BS from the west makes me want to chance a fart when I have diarrhoea!!!


You took it from my lips..... I was going to ask, who do you guys hang out with? For all my friends, both men and women, we fight almost all the time on who is going to pay. not because no one is offering, but because everyone has removed money to pay and it exceeds what is already in the bill.... some want to pay all of it but we wont allow it. and that's whether it is a lunch or a drink... if i invite you for lunch or a drink, i know i am picking the bill. And even then, someone still asks you "you sure you are ok with paying everything?"

Or am i lucky not to have met a shenzi type?

With this, i appreciate my friends even more!!!



BUT DO YOU SAY?? Kuwa mpole ! ABK!! Humility is a virtue!!
Common sense is the most evenly distributed quantity in the world. Everyone thinks he has enough.
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bwenyenye
#24 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 2:41:49 PM
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@Wendz,

If you have not met a guy who asks for his/her fantasies when you are buying or a guy who can gulp down seven Pilsner( I dont know why they like this beer ) in like forty five minutes, well as long as YOU is paying, you are one very lucky woman.
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nostoppingthis
#25 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 3:58:58 PM
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Impunity wrote:
@nostoppingthis,we decided to imbibe at Crown Plaza Babalus instead.They were monied and I only paid for bottled water if I'm not wrong....But they had clocked mileage I didnt bother to katia any of them.
I think they behaved maturely and I urge all Kenyan ladies to embrace this styro.


You should have been with @guka, he might have had a chance..same age groupsmile
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famooz
#26 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 4:08:29 PM
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This BS is hard to stop.....see the diverse opinion on the post?

All i can say to the men out there,pick a bill only when you want to,never under duress. To the women,have some class and foot your bills if you cannot offer to foot other people's bills......( read Adams bills)
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Wambui Roms
#27 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 4:26:30 PM
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My ten cents advice choose the friends you hang out with wisely. Its not just a question of whether they share/foot the bills, also the way they behave after having one too many can also be potentially embarrassing. Unless you are still under twenty one and you don't give a hoot at all!!!!
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McReggae
#28 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 4:31:12 PM
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Kwani some people hang' out randomly?????.....you should know your crew......rule of thumb, lakini kwa local kuna wale hawanunuangi!!!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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nostoppingthis
#29 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 4:32:51 PM
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McReggae wrote:
Kwani some people hang' out randomly?????.....you should know your crew......rule of thumb, lakini kwa local kuna wale hawanunuangi!!!!!


na wakinunua ni "spot welding" Laughing out loudly seen those guys who buy a round but skip certain individuals...
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McReggae
#30 Posted : Tuesday, July 12, 2011 4:41:05 PM
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nostoppingthis wrote:
McReggae wrote:
Kwani some people hang' out randomly?????.....you should know your crew......rule of thumb, lakini kwa local kuna wale hawanunuangi!!!!!


na wakinunua ni "spot welding" Laughing out loudly seen those guys who buy a round but skip certain individuals...


ama wanaita waiter kando, Laughing out loudly
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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