People, let the gal be. At least she did not abort the child.... if she had, we wouldn't be having this discussion. And what is worse? Carrying the baby and looking forward to raising it or quietly putting it in the bin to join the rest in Dandora or Ruai dumping site?

i doubt she owes anyone explanation about her decision to get a baby with whomever she pleases.... am not saying it is right to get a baby with a mpig who is married and has another mpango wa kando (I'd care(alot) if i was the mpig's wife - and who said it was a mpig anyway?), but if that's what she wanted and if that is what the mpig wanted, who are we? these are two consenting adults for heaven's sake? Who appointed us to be the life prefects and judges of who is doing what is right or wrong? how many times have we done the wrong thing, deliberately or not? Let the gal lead her life, we lead ours, and we shall all be happy. In short, please mind your own business, please? she is not the first or the last to do such a "grave" mistake.

I wish her all the best and all happiness for her, her baby and her man!

Disclaimer: I admit i am biased on this opinion when it comes to gayism so i don't expect someone to dig out an old thread challenging my stand on this issue given that they are both morally questionable... Gayism, to me, is on a different level so lets not even go there!...

People, let the gal be. At least she did not abort the child.... if she had, we wouldn't be having this discussion. And what is worse? Carrying the baby and looking forward to raising it or quietly putting it in the bin to join the rest in Dandora or Ruai dumping site?

i doubt she owes anyone explanation about her decision to get a baby with whomever she pleases.... am not saying it is right to get a baby with a mpig who is married and has another mpango wa kando (I'd care(alot) if i was the mpig's wife - and who said it was a mpig anyway?), but if that's what she wanted and if that is what the mpig wanted, who are we? these are two consenting adults for heaven's sake? Who appointed us to be the life prefects and judges of who is doing what is right or wrong? how many times have we done the wrong thing, deliberately or not? Let the gal lead her life, we lead ours, and we shall all be happy. In short, please mind your own business, please? she is not the first or the last to do such a "grave" mistake.

I wish her all the best and all happiness for her, her baby and her man!

Disclaimer: I admit i am biased on this opinion when it comes to gayism so i don't expect someone to dig out an old thread challenging my stand on this issue given that they are both morally questionable... Gayism, to me, is on a different level so lets not even go there!...