Kuchapwa bafu...

simply means being beaten in the bathroom...

@Wendz - You have a very good point there. There are ladies who are impossible to break up with. They'll cry, threaten, plead, call your sisters/mum, camp at your work place etc. For such ladies, one can forget the civil break up. But everything else I said holds.

@Bangi, karibu ndani, with wazua u will be spoilt for advices and opinions.

Do you have to be single to be dating someone else? Why do people find it wrong kuchapana bafu? Must you be having issues with your current boo to warrant break up, so that you can go for the next dude? What if this new person you meet is actually the right/best person for you, and for that reason you met, would you let that opportunity pass because you are hooked up?

(My dad alichapwa bafu. Thank God! Am alive today because of that).

Disclaimer: Am not talking about people already married.